2006-08-12 14:34:14 · 9 answers · asked by Lindsay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have to ask people on the internet then you dont. when you do, you know. it shouldnt be this hard.
2006-08-12 14:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a mis-understood thing. It's sometimes described as a romantic feeling. But if you get married to someone that you have that feeling with, the feeling will most likely go away, or not be there all the time. If you care deeply about that person like they are your child or a relative then maybe you love that person. I can't tell you. But love should be looked upon as a committment, when you decide to marry, because if you base it on a feeling, the feeling will go away, then you won't feel like staying married. But the marriage would last longer if you looked at it as a commitment. This is probably not a marriage question, but I think these could be related. I don't think there is such a thing as "ok I know I'm in Love". It's not like that. It's a feeling that makes you want to be with him, but I don't see it as some moment of clarity when you go "I'm in Love!" People want to be in Love, so they say that sometimes when they are just infatuated with a person. Somewhere along the line you thought that maybe you like someone enough it will become Love, but it's not like that. It's just strong emotions, which come and go. So if you have emotions and are wondering if it's Love, you will never really know, it's just an emotion, but if you are talking about real real Love, it's a commitment, not an emotion, and when you get married, you become one with that person, and there's a magical bond that happens if you make that commitment.
2006-08-12 21:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by The Bible (gives Hope) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if you are sweetie, you probably aren't. And I'm not trying to be mean either, I'm just saying from experience with bad boyfriends and one great fiance. Theres no surefire way in telling that you're in love, because everyone experiences love in their own way. Maybe you should talk to him about it, ask him how he feels (even though it might not be an easy task). This is gonna sound a little cliche but, just follow your heart sweetie; you need to listen to yourself and see how you're feeling...I hope I could be of help!! Good luck!!
2006-08-12 21:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dollface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you care for him, do you want to be with him, do you think he thinks the same towards you, you will know if you have those feelings (care and devotion).
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2006-08-12 21:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by silent-guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not if you are asking total stangers
2006-08-12 21:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by mharris90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you care for him...answer his calls...calls him back and u get jealous.
2006-08-12 21:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by misty_eyed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just suppose to know
2006-08-12 21:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by tomboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant always get what you want
2006-08-12 21:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it
2006-08-12 21:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by tattoo282001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋