and you text them "watcha doing", if they dont answer you back , does that mean there probebly doing somthing you wouldnt agree with? because they dont wanna lie, and im not talking about cheating just anything in general.
2006-08-12 14:32:29 · 18 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen people its a question a yes or no. This doesnt mean im refering to my boyfriend, and im not ten im 19 hes 24
2006-08-12 14:37:41 · update #1
and if you all must know im refering to my boyfriend going to the bar , he use to go there every nite and it worries me he has a problem
2006-08-12 14:39:18 · update #2
grow up...life has a bigger meaning then your ten year old bf/gf! no offense
2006-08-12 14:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by yoohoosusie 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends on what he or she is doing that you object to and the effect its having on your relationship. You mentioned, in your situation, that your bf is or was going to bars every night. That's time spent away from you. It doesn't sound like much of a relationship to me if your bf is going out with the boys every night to bars. If you text him and say "watcha doing?" and he doesn't reply, he's not concerned with your feelings one way or another----since he can't be bothered to reply. Then again, you might be smothering him and he might just need some space, but it this is the case he should tell you that.
2006-08-12 22:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't jump to conclusins so fast.... Maybe they didn't feel the phone because its on vibrate... Maybe they put the phone down briefly... The battery died.... the phone was off... they were sleeping... or simply just missed that text...
Don't read so much into missing a text message and not getting back to the person, I am really bad about it, I can get a text on the way to work to pick up Starbucks for everyone, but never get it... Then when I come in ((with my Starbucks)) everyone "ASSUMES" I just didn't want to answer... not at all the case... sometimes - - - you just miss that text.
IT HAPPENS.
Just brush it off.
2006-08-12 21:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Myzz Undastood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think that if hes going to the bar every night he just might have a problem. but you cannot control every thing another human does they always have choses and there is really nothing you can do to change that. if you've talked to him and now hes hiding it from you he most likely has a pretty good problem. and now its up to you to decide if you can live with that.
2006-08-12 22:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just mean they were bored, and decided to step away from the computer for a minute too....or a bathroom break..or that they are secretly Iming someone else.
2006-08-12 21:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by brattiness73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya he can be cheating&sleeping around and stuff but like one my ex friends I told look for signs like that but she couldn't talk me out of it all because she didn't like her guy talking other girls.In my mind and some my friends she wasn't looking for the guy that she loved she was just missing around.I would ask your guy what is going on.
2006-08-12 21:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by rfrandy2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means they are probably doing something...sounds like maybe yer having a trust issue here.
try calling
just cause he does not answer does not mean he is doing something wrong
could be something as simple as he is in the shower...
lol...you need to communicate more
be cool....
2006-08-12 21:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about how much that costs and if they even have the phone with them at the time, cool it and either leave them alone or call (real time) and talk to them,
2006-08-12 21:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They may be sitting on the toilet. Would you like to have them give you details on that activity?
2006-08-12 21:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by Eldude 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they were busy?
Why do so many women suspect guys are up to something?
2006-08-12 21:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, always. He loves me? then he can understand me.
2006-08-12 21:36:52 · answer #11 · answered by wenn_333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋