so anyways im 14 and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months now (he is 14 also) and belive it or not i have not kissed him yet...i know some of you people are saying "what the hell is wrong with you?!?!?". but you see...i want him to kiss me first, call me old fashoned...but i really want him to kiss me! the thing is he is a VERY modest person and i guess he needs to know that im ready for that kiss and be reasured that kissing is ok in my book! a few of you will prolly say that i shouldnt be dating at 14 but i dont really think that age matters in any relationship (unless its illegal) because i like him a lot, almost to the point of love now, and he is so sweet and nice and i get really sad when i dont see him almost every day. so how should i break it to him? i dont want to be strait forward about it and just ask him, i want it to be cute and secretive. so, do you guys have any ideas out there?!?!?!
2006-08-12 13:54:23 · 16 answers · asked by hmmmm..... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't listen to some of these knobs they are just upset because they are lonely and single. Your 14 and they are telling you to slow down even though you have never kissed. Oh boy. There are 12 and 13 year olds having sex and you have people telling you to grow up for just wanting a kiss. I think that age for sure doesn't matter and some of these people need to grow up and understand that at 14 you have just as much right as anyone to kiss someone. Having said that just let it happen don't force it. I'm sure you can think of perfect situations for you guys to kiss so if you put yourself in those situations its bound to happen sooner or later. I suggest just looking him straight in the eyes he should get the point. I'm sure you are a beautiful young lady and i'm sure he wants to kiss you just as much as you want him to kiss you. Some guys (myself included) are just shy when it comes to kissing a girl for the first time because we want it to be just perfect. Hopefully that is the case in this situation. As for you lonely pathetic adults on there tearing on this girl for wanting to be a teenager shame on you remember when you were 14. Good luck :)
2006-08-12 14:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by buckweedo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-12 22:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by traffic to website, earn money, 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to know that, it can't always be the guy to start something whether its dating, or making out, or so on. The girls have to start it somehow themselves as well. That's how relationships work out. But also some guys might be shy (Like Me) and will not attempt the first move because he might think that he is moving too fast. I've heard a bunch of girls saying stuff like "I think we should slow down" He might be thinking that if he tries to kiss you, then you might say that exact thing.
So if you really like him and aren't shy about anything, you should be the one making the first move. It gives a relationship more power, and will boost his confidence so he won't be so shy anymore.
Also, your still very young too, so slow it down just a tiny bit alright? If you want him to kiss you and never does, then you won't be getting any kisses from him for a long shot.
I hope i helped and good luck.
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2006-08-12 13:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't really invite someone to kiss you without being a little obvious. You have to remember that the more subtle you are the less likely he is to notice that you did something. The worst thing is that even if he notices, he might choose not to act upon it because he may feel that he is misinterpreting what you mean.
Stand close right in front of him and then gently put your hand behind his head or neck. Whisper softly "I want to kiss you." and then wait with your lips ready for him to lean forward and kiss you.
Best of luck!
2006-08-12 14:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Talk to him if you can.
2. Did he kiss anyone else?
3. Maybe he is not ready to kiss you.
4. Mabye he is not into the realtionship as you are.
2006-08-12 13:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get up close to him, look him in the eye and smile. That always led me to think the ok had been given for a first kiss.
2006-08-12 14:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jeremiah J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that u just gotta give it time and when he is ready he will give u the kiss just keep on doing the right things and time will come out and he will kiss u it just takes time
2006-08-12 13:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by babyface_1987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he really lyk u in d 1st place? if so den juz try 2 get a pretty romantic place and look at him in straight in d eye. Of course u might wanna wear a pretty nice clothing and that wuld really give him lots of hints liao....
2006-08-12 14:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the movies and see a scary movie,then in a scary part snuggle up next to him and look him in the face,slowly get closer,if he dosn't kiss you then wait till you're out side and sorta' do the same thing. :)
2006-08-12 14:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first place your both too young grow up
2006-08-12 13:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋