i'm talking emotional and physical abuse. getting slapped, hit in the back of the head, being pulled to the floor by your hair, but not having marks left on my body? just on my mind..pain
emotional being repeatedly told you are worthless, supid, pathetic, fat, ugly
im fourteen years old and i go through all of this everyday all the time...what should i do?
2006-08-12 13:54:06 · 18 answers · asked by jul324 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Honey you need to talk to someone first who will not go to your parents. You need to talk to the right person, someone who can keep it confidential until they get a place for you to go. Is there anyone else in the family who you could live with? I would hate to see you end up in foster care but I hate to think of you being abused too. Hopefully the couselors in school can direct you to the right place. Are you just entering high school? If so check around first to see who you need to talk to. Good luck and God bless you.
2006-08-12 14:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call Child Protective Services immediately or go to the nearest police station and tell them you do not wish to go home due to the abuse. You have legal rights ... if the police take you home, keep running away back to the police station until the Child Protective Agency is called and a hearing can be held in court.
2006-08-12 22:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by muddea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing is this you need to tell a adult eather some one in authority like a preacher or a neighbor a friends parent then they will have to report it to the authority child protective agency then they will come to investagate you dont need to have any marks to prove that there is abuse going on or just call the boys and girl hotline here is the number 1-800-448-3000 call them they will be able to help or just go to the local police dept if afraid have a friend call
2006-08-12 21:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by mrohiocountryalleycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to a councilor or teacher. call the police, and report them. you don't need to got through this. nobody has to go threw this. you are too young. if you can't call the police. then Waite until they leave and tell them what is going on. they will take you out of their. they might have to put you in a foster home. but at least you won't be abuse again. if this doesn't work they and talk to some one else in your family you can trust.
2006-08-12 21:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is doing this to you?
When I was younger I've had my share of physical pain when I got slapped, hit, etc, because I was reprimanded for doing something bad or unacceptable.
If you have been generally good and yet you still experience this, it is so unfair for you. Get help. Contact a relative or even the police.
2006-08-12 21:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is occuring with you is against the law. Go to someone you can trust. A teacher, school counselor. Let them know what is occuring. Remember though, they will remove you from your home so if your alligations are false you will be living with people that are not family for a while.
2006-08-12 21:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone. Stay away from the people that hurt you the best that you can. Dont make them angry do as they say until you can find a way to get away. The best thing to do is talk to your school counslour or talk to the police. Things will get better, but you must let someone know.
2006-08-12 21:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful Nightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you poor thing. Can you call a relative to get you out of that situation? Tell the police or your parents. Is it your boyfriend or a family member? I'm so sad for you.
2006-08-12 21:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by SmartyPants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't go to a teacher try talking to a mature adult you can trust...like a family member and tell them you need help. what state do you live in there are numbers that you can call to report the abuse..whether its mental or physical
2006-08-12 21:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by icandaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell sum1 about it. but its rlly hard to prove when u dnt have any marks. if its rlly that bad n u think ur in danger run away. n then the cops might listion to u. im kinda going thought the same thing but im just living with it and going to get the hell away when im 18. no one belived me but i hope they belive u. im srry ur in a bad situation. i guess if they dnt listion to u then dnt let them forget tell ur teacher friends other family members a trused adult any1 tell them everyday every seconed u have cry do w/e it takes to get them to listion to u. i kno its going to be hard. i hope this helped alittle but good luck
jenna
2006-08-12 21:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by jbgilginas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋