my boi friend cheated on me and i think that he should be hurting like i am.
2006-08-12 13:53:45 · 32 answers · asked by drea5247 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm going through the same thing right now. You want him to hurt? Make him feel like the jackass hereally is. Be strong though, don't cry, just act pissed.
2006-08-12 13:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by Zorky Charlemagne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why the person cheated. Both sides are to blame for someone having an affair, but not always.
2006-08-12 13:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that life is too short to hold a grudge and either you forgive him and get over the hurt or you need to move on and find someone who is going to be faithful.
Some believe once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-08-12 13:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Bigger is Better 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep my eyes open if he cheats once he will cheat again. Also be aware of the many STD's that are around. Protect yourself.
2006-08-12 13:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going out with him. You're not in charge of his punishment, per se, but you can make damned sure you're not in for more punishment yourself. That may have the residual effect of hurting him in the process or it may not, but you will definitely be protecting your own interests, which should be of primary concern. Best wishes in this regard.
2006-08-12 14:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i am in that same situation and for me i would just break up with the person before the cheating goes any forther. But hey dont let him break up with you be the better person and do it before he gets that far.
2006-08-12 13:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why? If he is not hurting that he hurt you then he may not care as much about you as you want him to or think he should. He did cheat on you already......you deserve better...don't you?
2006-08-12 14:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he be hurting? If he cheated on you, he doesn't care about you. If you keep him around, he will have his cake and eat it too. Kick him to the curb.
2006-08-12 13:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by tjb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not hurting, he is enjoying himself. People who cheat tend to alway cheat. RUN AWAY...
2006-08-12 13:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by rstump1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bye bye time! If you take him back, then he'll just learn that cheating is an acceptable behavior. You owe yourself more than that!.
2006-08-12 13:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋