I hate my life?

Question

i get bad grades, my family hates me, all my friends hate me now, im overweight, i just hate my life. i went to a psychiatrist but wouldn't tell him anything....im ashamed. what should i do?

this isn't a joke, this is a cover up ID

Answer 1

you HAVE got to stop thinkin like that.
once. i almost commited suicide.
i had the knife to my wrist ready to do the damage and end it all. but then i stopped. i thought about all of the good times. how this may be my only chance at life. how this could be my one shot in all of eternity you need to tell yourself its alright. because it is...it might not seem that at this time but when you are that low its hard to pick yourself up you jus have to think if im this low right now it cant get any worse. think of the memories you had with your friends. your friends will be back they are your friends. and your family...trust me i know how you feel...my family is never there for me never appreciates me and never ackknowledge my existence in their house so some days it is pretty rough but its the days when you had fun and you enjoyed life that pull you through these times...everything will be okay. what really helped get me through my low times was music and ice cream nothing better than a half gallon of ben & jerrys.

i feel your pain and i completely understand<333

Answer 2

there are already a lot of good answers. I hope you can take some encouragement from them.

Please do try again some counseling or at least find someone to reach out to.
Why do you think your friends hate you? Why does your family?
Are your perceptions of their feeling toward you off? Have you done something you think is unforgivable? anything is forgivable.

take comfort in all the answers you are getting and know that whatever you are feeling right now that "this too shall pass"
you may find a new reason to be happy and enjoy your life tomorrow... or even later today.

You have the answer to your question already. It is inside you.

You are not the first to feel this way and you will not be the last.
I once felt as you do and you can turn things around.

Just BE PATIENT with yourself and with others.
try reaching out again. Just keep trying and change will happen.
you will see....

Answer 3

Some students get bad grades because the teacher isn't doing their job. It is possible you are of higher intelligence than your classmates and you find the classes boring. It happens. Perhaps you are more of a visual learner than audio? Ask your teacher for help.
Walking is a easy exercise that burns calories, and while walking, it is a good time to think. Eat healthy foods and cut out junk foods totally. Your weight will seem like it is melting off. Then you'll be able to think better, remember more. As soon as a person gets on some sort of exercise program they begin to feel better, stick with it and never give up, never quit trying.
Talking to another person is good. It will help you to discover why you feel the way you do. A psychiatrist can help you see things in a different light. Then you will be on your way to loving your life.

Answer 4

Your grades can improve, your family may not hate you, you can get new friends, you can lose weight if you really need to (don't worry about that if you can't). Don't be ashamed, we all go through times like this. If it was a psychiatrist you think you may like, why don't you try again? It sounds as if you need someone to talk to. Psychiatrists can't repeat what you tell them, so give it a couple of sessions and see how you feel afterward.

Good luck hon. I sure hope you will be OK and start feeling better soon.

Answer 5

Look at the things you can change (like the grades). Ask a teacher for some extra help there.
Can you return to the psychiatrist and this time tell him/her what bugs you? They can help if you work with them.
Keep reminding yourself that this stage in your life doesn't last forever. We are constantly reinventing ourselves.
I was a nerd in high school and felt I didn't have any friends. When I went to college, I thought "hey, I'm tired of being like that," and tried to be more outgoing and social. Now, years later, people think I'm an extrovert.
Choose a thing you want to change. List some steps that work towards that. Start working on the steps. For instance, your goal could be "I want friends who like me." Ways to do that:
*join some groups/clubs/church/something
*apologize to your current friends if there was something you did to drive them away
*choose a person who interests you and start interacting with them and being nice to them
Just taking action will make you feel better and more in control of your life.

Answer 6

Not telling a psychiatrist what's troubling you sort of defeats the purpose of going, doesn't it? Believe me, the psych has probably heard it all before. You have to realize the only person who can change your life is you. Noone can or will do it for you. AND- you have to be willing to do the work necessary. Sometimes it's scary, or can make you sad or angry, but once you get on that road, it's a whole heck of a lot better than staying stuck.

Answer 7

Study! Love your family! Make new friends! Jog, Skip, Walk, Climb Stairs, Swim, Shoot Basketball, Hike, Treadmill it up, Sweat, Drink only water, Eat Salad, Eat 100% All White Chicken Breast, Learn to Love Green Beans! Forget your psychiatrist! It is all kind of simple for you since you only have a few bad problems. You are lucky because you could have serious problems!

Answer 8

You should never give up the hope.
You know.
I've been through a lot of bullshit in my life.. seriously..
I also have bad grades.. people hate me.
But I won't let it put me down. I still stay strong and I keep thinking positive. It keeps me strong and makes me mentally stronger. It may make me sound conceited but I think I'm special.
About the weight. You can get rid of it but you should be happy withever what you feel comfortable with.
It's ok to be ashamed. I feel ya. I got the same problem by this.
Keep being strong ! Don't hate your life ! =)

Answer 9

Only you can turn your life around. And maybe talking to someone would help, no is here to judge you. Its sounds like you have already judged yourself. You can do anything! Better grades! Your Family does not hate you maybe mom and dad are disappointed and they know you can do better. Your friends don't hate you either
As far as you saying you are over weight, you can change that! But you have to try! And believe in yourself! I know you can do it! Otherwise you wouldn't have ask these questions. Take Care! If you need some to e-mail and talk to look and my stats and theres my e-mail address, I would be gad to help you.

Answer 10

You're one step forward since the time you realized that you need help. That means accepting that you need something to change your life. You can change your life if you would like to. What we are today is the result of the decisions we have made in our life. No one put you to that situation but you yourself so it's up to you were you would like to go with life. Before you expect others to love you, love yourself first. Try to do something with your weight because if you're not healthy enough, you'll be lazy to do things. Go back to your psychiatrist but this time be braved enough to tell him everything. The truth will set you free. I assure you that after you talked to him, it will ease the burden. But most of all, PRAY a lot. It makes wonders!Good luck!