I dated a guy last year who was a freshman in college. Everything was cool and he seemed really mature and genuine but when school let out he just stopped calling, emailing nothing. Then when we get back to school for this semester he acts like he doesn't know me. Part of me wants to know why he flaunts in my face when he knows I still like him but part of me say leave it alone. What should I do. And how do you deal with this by seeing this person making you jealous all day, every day?
2006-08-12 13:21:11 · 21 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave the arrogant b,a,s,t,a,r,d alone. I hate guys that want to ignore a woman. But the game goes like this: When they ignore.......you ignore too. When you see him at school he knows you're watching. DON'T WATCH! Those kind feed on your longing and desire to boost their ego. A boosted ego lends a false sense of manhood. You're making him feel like a man while he is making you feel like great big nothing.
2006-08-12 13:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been guilty of this myself. It is the so called seasonal dating. Once school let out he wasn't staying around near you so he decided that rather than try a long distance relationship, he's going to let you go and look for someone else. When school started again he didn't feel it would make sense to go back to you after ignoring you so long or he may have found someone during the summer he's happily involved with for now.
2006-08-12 20:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Babe, he is not serious. Move on. If it would make you feel better (and most girls would say yes) then get even. Look good and move on that is the best thing that you can do. If he is a freshman in college than he probably is not all that mature. Neither are you probably....that isnt bad it is just reality...he moved on chalk it up to a learning expierence and MOVE ON.
2006-08-12 20:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would completely ignore him. Whenever he walks by and you are with friends, start laughing and look like you are having a fabulous time. He will get soo jealous. Get a new boyfriend or a guy friend who you can pretend is your boyfriend and walk around with him and kiss him right in front of this immature dude. Good luck.
2006-08-12 20:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by coolchick 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a BF to spite him back double. French in front of him! Woo Hoo!
2006-08-20 01:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like your beter than him give him the same vibe hes giving you you dont need some sorry excuse of a person who thinks hes better than you hes still a teenager immature
2006-08-12 20:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by applejack80@sbcglobal.net 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
show him your the stronger person and these stupid games won't work. Basicly to sum up just get on with your life. Forget him and move on. Don't give him the pleasure of playing with you.
2006-08-12 20:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
we learned it in kindergarten boys are stupid lol u can always fight fire with fire and make him jealous by being seen with a new someone, especially if its one of his friends, don't let him know you are still into him, its hard to do but try keeping your mind focused on something other that him, i am sure he is the one at a loss, but he'll never admit it
2006-08-12 20:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by cgbrickey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im kind of in that same situations and the best thing that I could say is to let it go and let him realize what he is missing
2006-08-12 20:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
get over him, and ignore him. he obviously doesnt have any feelings for you anymore- or he wouldnt be treating you like that. dont waste anymore of your time or feelings on him.
if you do, you will regret it later on when your feelings continue to get hurt.
2006-08-12 20:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋