Ok if your a muslim that was born gay and has been gay all his life but never told anyone about it nor did anything with another male is it a sin? Is it ok if you are gay but you keep it to yourself and prevent doing anything with a member of the same sex?
2006-08-12 13:20:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The consequences will be very terrible for you if anyone finds out.
2006-08-12 13:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please remember that Allah/God has made us males or females for a purpose. What is the ultimate purpose? To realize our full potential as human beings. Human beings who organize and help each other and bring order to the Lord Almighty's Earth and institute systems that ultimately bring peace to one and all!
Sexual orientation is primarily for procreation. Males are males so that they may impregnate females so that the species of human being (or any other being including animals) continue. If everyone was born gay, that very generation would be last one for mankind, unless the gays "force" themselves to do what does not come "naturally" to them, that is interact with the opposite sex.
Also remember that if only one person in your generations at ANY POINT IN THE PAST, on your mother's side or your father's side was a practicing gay person, even in one generation, neither you nor any of your ancestors or the many people they married with would have had children and millions of people would simply not be alive, depending on when that situation happened in the past. When one kills a living person or one stops someone from being born, it is almost the same in the final effect.
Do an exercise in real life. Imagine your grandfather was a practicing gay person (one who did not marry, but stayed chaste, and did not have sex with another man either), and look around you and see how many people in your very family would not exist. Look at all the females who would be denied a spouse and a house and a family. Look at all the children who would never know a FATHER or a MOTHER, and then you will begin to fathom the seriousness of this line of thinking!!!
Literally anyone can do this exercise, if you are very young and think you are gay, you can do this exercise with your great grand father. I am sorry that I am having to ask you to think this way, but if this can cure the situation, it is worth it.
Think this way also... had any of your ancestors been gay, you would not be asking this question, because you would not exist, and the person you may dislike the most will have control of your property, as they did not practice being gay.
Now, very few people are born gay, and it may be possible some are, but even the most gay person has male ingredients that are intrinsic and you can work on developing those instincts.
Remember that even a fully male person also has some female attributes such as breasts, which are useless for a male. Similarly a full macho male when he was young had the voice of a female, and not a male. Does that then require that he turn to a gay life style? All females similarly have certain male characteristics. We are all mixed in some respects. But we have dominant features that make us who we are.
Most people who think they are born gay generally have learnt to think in this direction at some point in their lives, usually under the influence perhaps of an older cousin or other relative who has been afflicted with thinking in this way. Remember that all human beings share certain attributes across the sexual gender.
YOU are truly gay if you do not have the sex organ or if you can not ejaculate or if you have a female part instead of a male part. THAT happens very rarely. Chances are you have some female attributes, such as a voice that is gentler, or body parts that are more feminine or a shorter height etc, but please know that you are still fully male, unless you do not have a male sexual organ or you can not father a child and can not perform sexually. Even in such situation it is possible to correct the situation.
Also remember that the death penalty in Islam is for only those crimes which kill someone. Choosing the gay life style does "kill people", and denies a female the RIGHT to a spouse!!
Ultimately as said above, that if everyone was gay in just one generation of mankind, no human would exist beyond that generation.
I hope I am making sense and may Allah guide us all if we need guidance and keep us firm in our path if we are guided. Ameen.
Remember being gay is a form of killing your nation, slowly and subtly.
2006-08-12 14:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by NQV 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Number one, no one is born gay. Being "gay" or homosexual is a lifestyle choice of a person who has a perverted frame of reference to sexuality.
Number two: To be "gay", by definition, would mean that you are or have had a sexual experience, rather many sexual experiences with the same sex.
It sounds like you are a confused individual who have sexual fantasies about someone of the same sex as you.
In Islam, homosexuality is a sin. If you are practicing the religion of Islam, (blow yourself up). Just kidding. Seek help.
2006-08-12 13:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having gay feelings is not a sin. Having a certain feeling that you can't control isn't a sin. Acting upon that feeling is where it becomes a sin. Your not officially 'gay' until you do something with another male. As a Muslim I can tell you as long as you don't act upon it, it isn't considered a sin. Don't listen to what anyone else tells you and you'll be fine!!!
2006-08-12 14:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by bttrfly* 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I guess it's a sin..
Isn't being gay or being lesbian a sin to every religion ?
Well I'm muslim.
It's not like that there aren't any gay people in moslemic countries that don't admit it. There are even gay clubs and such.
2006-08-12 13:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by °:·.Your tasty`sunshine´-acid.·° 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look i am muslim and i kno my parents think and islam says that being gay is a sin but personally i think that every one should live there lives the way they want....i think you should come out of the closet and live ur life with out having to worry about religion. look you get one life is it better to waste it and gat married to some girl you are not attaracted to but your parents picked her for you or is it better to live your life the way you want....after god made you gay and there i sno free will in that you would go insane if you had to supress your sexuall stuff.. anyway thats what i think
2006-08-12 13:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get over it: nobody is born gay. Gay is a lifestyle. How is a one-day-old baby gay?
2006-08-12 13:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by flandargo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are lots of "bi" guys in Islam, it isn't really looked down on. If they have a extra wives or girlfriends/ boyfriends no one cares...but if the girls like other girls, or cheat it is considered bad!
2006-08-12 13:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by sandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a sin is concedered to be a sin weaher somebody knew about it or not because god always knows what you are doing
2006-08-12 14:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by Rami 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh yeah, you're goin straight to hell, and if you get caught, you will be killed and peed on publically
2006-08-12 13:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Firstd1mension 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋