why are all men pigs?

Question

they want to have a kid but when u finally have one they dont want to share responsability what can i do to make sure he does his fair shair

we have been engaged for 5 years my lil girl is 15 months and i dont think he has ever gotten up in the night to feed , never once changed a nappie , never bathed her alone and the most time i have left her with him for is 10 mins to go to the shop all he does is scream at her and call her a ***** im sick of it why cant he love her the way i do ?

ok sorry i exagirated he does change nappies but not without a 15 min winge first

Answer 1

He is a dick, thats the bottom answer, you made a mistake, it may have been love, but you should have looked under the shell, if you did not do that it's your own fault. Sorry! It's a pitty cause kids should make a man fell more manly, if he just sees a lot of trouble in helping you taking care of YOUR (like in both) child, then he's a scumbag, I'm sorry dear, but this is the truth. Think outside the box before trowing yourself in something like this, it is too late now, think about the girl, the best sollution is tom leave him or take up all of his bull-****.
Hope you take the right decision, cause no other can take it for you.
BTW, regarding the question, not all men are pigs, I think I'm an examplem and to all the pricks out there that will shout this, NO I'm not gay, straight as a lamp-post. Maybe you just got unlucky.

Answer 2

actually there are some women that are pigs. Ever heard of a Bimbo, whore, ****? Yeah thats what men evaluate pigs. besides the undeniable fact that some guy pigs would appreciate a intense-high quality bimbo which in they case they seem to be a strategies from lost. although i dont think of your instructor is authorized too say that, she became putting her activity on the line for that remark. Btw, no person likes a sexist man or woman dont be one.

Answer 3

Uhh, pigs?

I can cook, clean, have great sex, answer problems, put up with long discussions about *their* problems until 4 am when I have to be at work by 8, I'm patient, kind, and capable...

If and when I have a kid, it will be a conscious choice, and until then I will encourage my SO to use birth control of some sort.

Sounds more like you were irresponsible, and now faced with a burden, you want to project your blame on to him.

But don't call us pigs. I've been cheated on, kicked into the mud, and otherwise abused by a hell of a lot more women than you've been inconvenienced by guys in general, kiddo.

Answer 4

Men want the bragging rights of saying they have a kid, but you are right, they dont want the responsibility. They dont realize that kids are more than a weekend thing, its a 24/7 job that will last the rest of their lives. Unfortunately, other than filing for child support, there is not a whole lot you can do. Hopefully he will grow up, if not...move on.

Answer 5

Nothing at all I'm sorry you think all us guys are like this , but the truth is you have fallen in love with a selfish lazy azzhole and he thinks that as long as you are there he can just let you look after your child and i bet that's n what he says right (your child) well if you love him you will have to accept that but if not tell him there are hinges on the screen door and you want hear them squeak as he leaves and never comes back . do his load of work or hit the road. you want your child growing up in a home with 2 loveing parents not one tired slave and her master

Answer 6

1 - ignore the answers that feed that myth
2 - don't thik we ALL are - that's as bad as a guy saying "why are all women sluts?"
3 - before you have a child with someone, you need to know that he will do his share FIRST

I do my share - When our kids were babies i got up in the middle of the night just as often as my wife, changed diapers, worked, helped with the house, etc etc.

We didn't have a child till AFTER we were sure we could live together and all that stuff.

Answer 7

I can see where you are coming from, right now me and my wife don't have any kids....yet but if we do I just can't imagine myself changing diapers....eww Doesn't mean i'm a pig though, I talk care of her and love her :) But when it comes to a baby, i've got no clue so I would let her maternal instincts take over.

Answer 8

Are you married? If you both entered into this relationship then you both agreed to compromise with the responsibility. Open lines of communication without attacking him. Do not hold your feelings in.

Answer 9

If you want to criticize your husband, you have my permission to call him a pig (though it probably violates the guidelines), but you have no right to insult ALL MEN.

Being a woman, I happen to be very fond of (some) men.

Remove this question and try again.

Answer 10

Women were the gatherers jackanapes. ANYWHO...not all men are losers. I've got me a great one, but I feel your pain. You need to be sure to point out to him how hard it is to do all the things that you do, but not in a nagging tone of voice. Tell him how much you appreciate it whenever he does do something to help out.