or why do you wear short skirts or that kind of clothes if you dont want to be looked at???
2006-08-12 13:16:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I go out on "date nights" with my hubby in micro mini skirts and 5" stilettos. Why? That is what he enjoys seeing me in and I have the confidence in myself to wear them. If you are looking at me and not doing anything else, enjoy the view!
2006-08-16 02:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I feel the same as you.. if a female hates the way the old geizers or other men look at you.. then why do you wear stuff that shows off your body as you do? Some of the young girls..obviously like to show as much of their body as they possibly can to get attention. Some clothing is so provacative that it leaves little for the imagination. Go figure??
2006-08-12 20:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind if they look. I don't wear short skirts and clothing that is real revealing. I don't dress to be looked at by other guys. But if they do look then that is fine by me (and hubby). My thoughts are let them look. I might take a second look at a guy on the streets but that doesn't mean i don't love my husband. It is natural to just look at someone. It is just a quick look or glance. Nothing serious.
2006-08-12 20:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dress in all kinds of ways... like a tomboy, goth-ish, slutty, classy, and sometimes just straight out nutty!
It all depends on my mood. I dress the way I dress for me, not for the attention I receive (and I get the looks and pick-up lines regardless of my attire).
Just because I get the notion to dress it up and be girly (or slutty if I feel like taking it to the degree of a camel toe or worse), doesn't mean I'm out looking for attention. Although, I do know I'm gonna be hit on anyway, so I'm not gonna get mad over it unless the guy won't take no for an answer, LOL, then I have to get brutal.
But generally, the comments and looks just make me laugh 'cause most men make fools out of themselves looking so hard or thinking I want to be talked to just because of how I dress.
So all in all - I have to agree with the men on this one. You KNOW they're gonna look - either take it as a compliment, or just let it go and don't worry about it. No need in getting all uptight about it.
2006-08-12 21:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by JustMoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question (lol)Some years ago I was walking along a busy avenue in New Jersey and this girls (two girls actually) were walking towards me. The one girl was wearing blue jeans so tight that it made an indent toward her p u s s y. And naturally I couldnt help but to stare at her especially since she looked so sexy in those jeans.
And as they walked past I overheard her say to her girlfriend in an indignant manner "girl, he was looking into my crotch!"
I thought that was so funny what in the hell was she thinking?
I'm not gay so naturally I was all eyes! But if she felt that way-
then why was she wearing those jeans in public like that?
2006-08-12 20:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by worriedaboutyou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well icare if there like stareing me up and down if u know what i mean cuz its like creepy but i dont care if there like looking in my direction and smileing bcuz its kinda flattering and sweet in a strange in daranged way but still abd about the clothes things i dont really where short skirts and plus i were what i wear bcuz it looks cute not so people will stare i mean jezz hopefully i helped
2006-08-12 20:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by skflaramee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy looks at me on the street...its good...but sometimes it gets to the creepy point where they are staring at you and crap...we wear short skirts because we can
2006-08-12 20:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by oh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for all of the girls out there who walks around half naked in public wants attention from males and females. That lets people know that you are seeking some kind of lover in your future. And that you are willing to just talk to anyone, desperate wannabe.
2006-08-12 20:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Unique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
What they are not saying is it is ok for some guys to LOOK but not for others to even glance their way.
I have seen women at work turn in guys for starring at them but the same women are ok with other guys joking about their boobies. Or even poking them in the side.
So it is the double standard.
2006-08-12 20:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i get pissed of but the reasons we try to look hot is cause we like making r selves feel pretty and not only that a piece of advice always look girls in the eye when you are talkin to them not at thier boobs
2006-08-12 20:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Just another pretty face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋