He said to me that he loves me...He's handsome and rich, he's a wonderful person but...there's only one problem...He's 42!!He's too much older than me...Please help!!
2006-08-12 12:59:52 · 27 answers · asked by Strawberry Cheesecake 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
PS...He's 27years older than me!!
2006-08-12 13:08:37 · update #1
ew thats really gross. im sorry but your only 15! your probably a good looking young lady and old guys like that that have lots of money like to be seen with young beautiful women. hes probably using you and if i were you, i would enjoy my youth and date all of the hot young guys that your gonna run into when you get to college. i dated an older guy when i was 16 and that was the biggest mistake of my life. i made my parents cry because i lied to them to be with him. after a year and not giving it up to him we broke up and he ended up having someone elses baby. i also found out he was a crack head. i was blinded dont let him blind you.
2006-08-13 19:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by married1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen - I've just done the math - and you are 15 - that makes it very simple and easy to let him go - just point out that his relationship with you (especially if it is physical) is ILLEGAL. You are not a child anymore, but you are not yet an adult - he is and he should be ashamed. It does not sound as if you are that bothered about this relationship, but if you are then suggest you contact him in 5 years when you've dated lads your own age and seen a bit more of life. If you're not bothered - ditch him and walk away.
2006-08-14 01:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by geegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not really a question of his age. What you have to ask yourself is do you fancy him? If you do and think you could grow to love him, then the age difference doesn't really matter. I think the fact that you are saying he is too old for you really answers your question. If you don't want a relationship with him then you just have to tell him, in a nice way, that you are sorry you don't feel the same way as him. Good luck!
2006-08-12 23:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just what you said here. How much is "too much older than me'? If there is more than 10 years difference, yes there will be issues with the age difference. Good luck to you.
2006-08-12 13:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why does age matter? My partner is 23 years older than me and we couldn't care less, we are happy, settled, have a family together and most importantly, in love. if you feel happy and comfortable with him then does age really matter? after all its only a number. as soon as people (meaning friends and family) see that you are happy and comfortable, they tend to forget the age gap too if you find that a worry?
2006-08-13 04:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Elle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I will like to say that there is no age barrier in a relationship. At times, its good to get an older man cause they will shower you with more love, they know what you need, they are more faithful, and they have more knowledge of this world to guide you along. But of cos if you feel that you can't except, just tell him that you can't except him. Let him know that he is wonderful in all ways, but its just that there is no sparks in this relationship except friendship. He can't force you to be with him, can he? just follow your mind ger.
2006-08-12 15:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by flo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age differences like that seldom work. Break it off. Don't see him again. He may be a wonderful person but 27 years is too much.
2006-08-13 13:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 15! That is VERY wrong and he needs to get reported to the authorities. Tell him you dont date pedophiles, but you know a nice place where they can all go and hang out (county jail!)
2006-08-12 15:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's verging on the border of statutory rape as you're under 16.
Has he ever been married or live long-term with anybody ?
Sound a bit like a perv to me, steer well clear of him
2006-08-13 13:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by CeeVee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart if you are mature for you age you can handle it when you find love hold on it really matters if you are happy you cant be that young if you are under 18 really think about he will understand if he is as wonderful as you say and money should not matter just say you and him will be very comfortably to gather good luck
2006-08-12 13:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋