i've been goin out with my boyfriend for 3 months and i'm 15 in february. i want 2 wait til im 15 til i loose my virginity because i feel that 15 is a good age, nd february is a special month 4 us both because both r birthdays and valentines day r in february. i have had that idea since ive been going out with him, but he makes me feel dead turned on!! Even though i feel turned on by him, i want 2 stay a virgin till i'm 15, what do u think??
2006-08-12 12:59:51 · 36 answers · asked by DanniG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is 16 and is still a virgin, he is prepared to wait because i want 2. i don't want to loose my virginity now because i don't want 2 be 14 when i loose it and i'm not sure that i'm ready now, but now i don't know what 2 think coz i get turned on by him!
2006-08-12 14:35:47 · update #1
wait til u r ready dont rush into things..
2006-08-12 13:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by sarah p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!! Are you mad!!! im sorry honey but you are still a child however strongly you apparently feel for your boyfriend. And speaking from experience you wont actually realise this until you are about 24 . I know how you feel... you think you are mature enough,you think you are in love...and that you parents and other adults like me know nothing!!! Fair play, i thought that at your age too but trust me.
I was 16 when i lost my virginity. I had been with this boy for 9 months.I bitterly regret it and i wish i had waited till i was 18 at least. Its all hormones racing and thinking that sex is a big thing. The first time isnt great,it hurts,and you wont feel suddenly fantastic once you ve done it! Besides which..its against the law until you are 16 anyway. You have the rest of your life ahead of you and you dont know enough about this boy only after 3 months, if you do it,whats to say he doesnt just leave you? I think you realistically need to stay a virgin until you are at least 17/18.When you are a little wiser. Also there are plenty things you can do 'other' than have intercourse that will pleasure each other. But its up to you...the fact that you are asking this question raises doubts that you really know yourself how you feel.
Think long and hard because once you virginity is gone..thats it.Wouldnt you rather wait till you fall in love?
2006-08-13 00:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by hotlegs31 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah wait, theres no big hurry. You'll feel better when your about my age (22) and you can say that you lost it at a respectable 15 rather than 14 which when your my age seems too young. Trust me I know from experience!! I didn't feel too young at the time though, but when you get even a year older you think, hmm... I wasn't really ready.
Whatever makes you happy though, at the end of the day whats a few months. Do whatever you feel is right, just make sure that you do it safely.
2006-08-12 13:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
15.............Shouldn't you be in bed asleep at this time.
I think you are having us on, but just in case you are really a 15 year old girl then I think you should think again. Go and read all of the answers here .Summergirl was good and a few others told you off like brothers and sisters. Take the advice they give. You think you are all grown up now but you are still a lovely little girl. Don't spoil it. If that boy loves you he will respect you like nobodies business when you tell him you want to wait a few years. He will see you as a very mature young lady. Hope you make the right choice.
2006-08-12 13:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by Learner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 when I lost my virginity, not because I didn't have a boyfriend but because it just didn't feel right with who I was with, I have no regrets to this day, I'm glad I didn't rush it and certainly had learnt alot more about blokes and what really to expect and because I was comfortable I enjoyed it more, I think you should wait until you really do feel ready, everyone says it but this is a big deal and you will remember it for the rest of your life, I smile when I think of my first time, yours should be the same, don't rush it. If you BF cares he'll wait.
2006-08-12 22:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Claire-Louise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do whatever you want but that is a really young age. But It's your life. Lets just hope he doesn't dump you after he gets what he wants or if not now dumps you in the future for some other girl. But hey what do I know I am only 18! Just be careful. Use protection no matter what. I wish you the best of luck and I hope that everything works out for you. I was 15 when it happened too. I also got my heart broken. I don't want you to end up depressed like me. Be careful, ok.
2006-08-12 13:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
15 is to young.I am 46 Ilost mine when I was 13.By the time I was 15 I had 2 kids. I screwed up my whole life by making the wrong decisions. This is a critical time in your life,the decisions you make now are the ones that will effect the rest of you life. So be very careful.you think your ready but your really not.not even at 15
2006-08-12 13:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by rosebud123 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait longer, i know it feels like you're ready now but i have a strong feeling that you'll regret it later.
i was 15 and had been with my boyfriend for about five months when i lost my virginity, and it is one of the biggest mistakes that i think i've ever made.
i've been with my current boyfriend for more than a year and a half and we had been together for more than a year before we started anything like that.
your virginity is one of the most special things that you have it. i cant tell you whether its the right thing or wrong thing to do right now, i can just tell you to make sure that it is really what you want to do. don't let him rush you into anything. make sure its special and dont let anything cheapen it.
best wishes.
2006-08-12 13:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by cornflake_gurl_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your goals in life? Wait until you are ready but be prepared for what might happen and are you ready for it? Lets just say, I have 2 kids and one was conceived while i was on the pill and using a condom... (I wasn't 15) but if that would've happened at 15 it would've changed how my whole life turned out. Are you ready to be a mom if it happens, not saying it will but there's always that 1%. Keep that in mind! Good luck hon!
2006-08-12 13:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by Suzelle A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i think 15 is not a good age. But if you want your first time to be special as in how it happened, then wait. But keep in mind that most peoples' first times aren't that great anyway mostly because it hurts the first time. So i think you should wait to make it special.
2006-08-12 13:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a perfect date to end your relationship and send you into months of crying jags and then posting on here wondering why your guy dumped you.
Get a grip sweetie. Hold onto your virginity. It's not a birthday gift. And you can't get a refund.
Unless you want all of the pain and suffering that would come with "giving it up" for some guy. Make him earn your respect by remaining a virgin. Trust me...once he's been there, he's done "that." You're history!
2006-08-12 13:04:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋