I'm 17. I like a guy who I work with. I think he likes me, too. He's been talking to me a lot lately and I think he's flirting with me. He goes goes to my school, too. I've known him for a while, but this is the first time we've actually really talked.
So this morning this lady who works there too, came in. She wasn't working, though, just buying a few things since I work in a department store.
She approaches me and asks me if I'm "seeing anyone". I say, "No." And then she refers to her son, as in, would I like to go out with her son? I didn't have time to respond, so she said, "We'll talk about it tomorrow."
I have only seen her son about 4 times, never really talked to him, don't even know his name...
I would really like to see where this is going with the guy that I like, even though I am pretty much shy when it comes to relationship stuff.
It's just, going out with her son would be easier and that's what my friends want me to do.
What do you think I should do??
2006-08-12 12:32:09 · 9 answers · asked by sam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go with the guy you like and not the son, because you should go with your heart.
2006-08-12 12:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date anyone you don't really know simply because he's convenient - that's no basis for a relationship.
By all means get to know this woman's son and then decide whether or not you want to date him - but don't do this in a "date" scenario.
In your current situation I would suggest being proactive by asking out the guy you like. If he says yes, great. If he says no then at least you know where you stand - but - again - don't settle for what's easy or convenient if it isn't what you want.
2006-08-12 19:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by a1mandrake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've got nothing going on with this guy you like, it would seem that this lady's son might be first in line, and it would be only polite to accept his invitation.
Either way, though, you can always slow down if you think you're not ready for such things yet.
2006-08-12 19:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want your crush...then the time might be now to get the courage to ask if he'd like to go out on a date or something. If not..then go for the other. One date won't ruin anything.
2006-08-12 19:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would go to with the guy at your school you see him alot and you see the son not very much so i would pick the guy from your school.
2006-08-12 19:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by da man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go out with the guy I like period. Good luck.
2006-08-12 19:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should go out with him.... his mom ask you out??? thats not how u ho out with a guy. if the guy wants to go out with you he most tell you to go out, not his mom. nd meybe if you go out with this guy the other one could lose interest. so be carefull
2006-08-12 19:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by shu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listening to your friends just to hear their opinion,but be true to yourself,do what will make you happy
2006-08-12 19:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think is right
2006-08-12 19:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by camo_sak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋