Last night i was chatting w/ this guy that i met on myspace, and he was calling me stuff like hun and babe, and he knows that i have a boyfriend, and then he asked me how my relationship was going and when i told him it was good, he said "like i wanted to hear that". Then this other guy from my school called me and was asking if i was single, and i said no, then he said that he had to go but he would call me tomorrow. So I told my boyfriend about all of this and he got really mad about it, should i just not tell him next time???
2006-08-12 11:44:45 · 28 answers · asked by 13193_43 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you should tell him that you are sorry for hurting his feelings, but you need friends too. Good luck.
2006-08-12 11:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't any longer have been given something to make as much as him. He needs to recover from himself. he's not a virgin so he's basically letting his stupid male EGO get contained in the way right here and attempting to make you sense worse then you definitely already do approximately your 'errors'. Boys at this age have not got a CLUE approximately genuine life or the thank you to have a real courting so do no longer xpect too lots from him or the different teenage boy. women mature lots swifter & youthful emotionally than boys and it is frequently YEARS earlier you run right into a youthful guy who can cope with your previous without it bugging his stupid soft EGO. for my section i think of you will desire to shop your previous the place that's - contained in the previous. it somewhat is not any one enterprise yet your individual and you do no longer owe him or everyone else an evidence. to no longer point out young babies in intense college are advise, rude & petty and gossipy - even boys. you're taking your recognition and offering it up as a sacrafice each and every time you tell a meant buddy or yet another boy approximately your previous studies. i does no longer tell yet another soul. intense college is problematic sufficient without this sort of crap springing up to hang-out you. You screwed up and clearly discovered something from it. you're moving on - tell him he needs to additionally or he can circulate discover yet another lady to spice up his soft male ego because of the fact he's not nicely worth it if this sort of non-public information can no longer additionally be dealt with.
2016-09-29 05:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was me I would want to know, that way I know that she wouldn't hide anything from me. But well alot of guys don't want to hear about these things. It's like you are trying to rub in their face that guys are after you and you have plenty of options. So well he probably just took it as you trying to say that if things don't get better you'll move on quickly. So well next time if it happens again, don't mention it. I mean if your boyfriend asks don't lie to him. But keep that info on a asking bases, that way you don't make him angry, and you don't have to worry about thinking you are keeping secrets.
2006-08-12 11:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well yeah.. you should keep telling him.. because if he found out some other way he'd probably be even more mad at you for not telling him.. then if you just told him.. and the only reason he got mad was obviously becasue he was jelous.. having over guys hitting on you..its not like hes gonna break up with you over it .. its not like you did anything..so yeah keep telling him..like without fights a relationship doesnt mean anything.. when couples dont fight it clearly shows they dont care about eachother.. and the only reason your boyfriend got mad was cause he cared about youu:)
2006-08-12 11:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by love04 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure if it comes up tell him. Its no big deal. If he asks if your hungry you tell him, because it's no big deal. Talking to other boys is not an issue. Your allowed this freedom. If he can't deal with that, then maybe he should look for a slave, and not a partner. Just try not to get into a situation that looks bad, jealousy is a hard thing to overcome.
2006-08-12 11:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by No worries 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont tell him anything else some men are insecure but they try to hide it. He seems like the jealous type to me the things you told him would be most suited for you and you girlfriends to discuss a man never wants to know about another man
2006-08-12 11:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has all the rights to know about you talking to other guys. put yourself in his shoes, if he was to talk to other girls, wouldn't you get mad at him? even though nothing is going on, nothing flirtatious you still have to tell him, a good relationship is having honesty and be open about everything. yes he may get mad, it's because he loves you, and he gets jealous. don't do anything you'll regret later on if you lost him. think before you do things.
2006-08-12 11:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes honestlty is the best in a relationship
but dont go looking to chat with guys online thats not a good thing and may hurt your relationship with your guy
2006-08-12 11:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Binky 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is probably just jealous, as long as you keep it innocent he can't be too upset, but maybe just stick to no private chats. Even let your bf sit and watch so he won't feel so distrusting in the future.
2006-08-12 11:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, it is your fault to talking to the guy first off. I think its good that you told your boyfriend, because you're being honest and at least he knows you'll tell him. If it does come up again, (even though it shouldn't unless you couldn't avoid it.) tell him. He'll appericate the honesty, if not now, later.
2006-08-12 11:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋