me and my girl friend got into a fight the other night and we almost broke up. well i saved that from happing. well ever since then my girlfriend acts like she dosen't want anything to do with me well i told her today i was happy for her that she is goin to college. i told her was going to hurt because she would be away from me. and she said your Problem is that i want to go to collage. and i told her that i was happy for her and that i love her and she hasen't talked me since so what do i do. can somone please help me i was goin to ask her to marrie my on tuesday. so can somone please help me out.
2006-08-12 11:43:24 · 8 answers · asked by Pilskin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like she isn't interested anymore. good luck though.
2006-08-12 11:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like she is having a rough time, I mean going to college is a very stressful thing, especially if it's her first time. So well I don't think she wants to handle anything relationships until she settles everything in her college, so well just give her some space man. It's the best you can do. Don't give up, let her come around. Don't nag on your relationship though. It will make things worse, believe me, I have a friend, him and his girlfriend had their share of rough times too, and she just stopped talking to him too, and he wouldn't stop trying to contact her, leaving her messages constanly on her phone, e-mailing her, long story short, she came back and said that she can't be with a guy that doesn't know how to give her space, and she broke up with him. So from that experience, just give her some space, let whatever happens, happen, and just find the perfect moment to ask her out somewhere, and just pop the question. But don't push or force your relationship
2006-08-12 12:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by darkgothicshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just not that in to you. It sounds as if she has resolved herself to leaving for college, and maybe things are tense on purpose, so that you won't miss each other while she's gone. What she didn't count on, was that you have deeper feelings for her, than she does for you. I'm sorry, but I think you have just been dating the wrong person. That's not a bad thing, as we all have to have our life experiences. Her focus SHOULD be on her eduaction, at her age. And why not? Education will most definetely prepare her, (and you) for life, which is coming at you full force. Let her go, to pursue her life. You, as well, should pursue yours. Why not continue your education, or learn a trade? This will teach you responsibility, and purpose. When you are truly prepared, relationships and love always find a way. Make friends, and keep them close. When you are happy with yourself, it will show, and others will want to be around you. I am not doubting your feelings, but I don't think asking her to marry you will solve any problems, it will surely only create more, and I'm afraid you will be terribly hurt. Spare yourself, and let go. You'll be understanding of all this one day, I promise.
2006-08-12 11:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she isn't into you any more. You should move on with your life and stop communicating with her. If she is still interested, then SHE will contact YOU. Take care.
2006-08-12 11:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship has ended for her, but not for you. Move on.
2006-08-19 18:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a bit to young yet but if ur truely in love well ask her
2006-08-12 11:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Missa~Luvs~U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theirs not enough duck tape in the world to fix you
2006-08-12 11:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by Tommy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her. if that doesn't fly, then suggest to be with her and just live with her while she goes to college.
i wish my bf would ask me already.
goodluck!
2006-08-12 11:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Bitterly Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋