My ex and I went out for 4 and 1/2 years. He was my first love and I planned my entire life with him, but then he cheated on me. And its been two years, and I am over him, but ever since then any guy that go out with I can't trust. I mean I know not every guy is like him but why am I having such a hard time with trusting people? Whats wrong with me? I even met a really nice guy who I went out with for 8 months but then I ended it with him because I didn't trust him and... I don't want to ruin every relationship I get myself into just because of my past. What can I do? Please help...
2006-08-12 11:39:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
heyy sweetheart i am the exact same way..i cant trust any guy...and its horiable just hang in there and when the rite guy comes along u will kno it and then he will help you get over that fear
good luck
2006-08-12 11:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by JPM Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of the past. Learn from it, let it go, and live in THIS moment. The past is gone and the future hasn't happened yet. So the past is a memory and the future is an illusion.
So truthfully speaking....what else do you REALLY have but right now....right now...right now.... right now.......
2006-08-12 11:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to beleave in yourself and respect life and if your truely over your ex then trust shouldn't be hard to find
2006-08-12 11:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋