this is driving me crazy! lol I fancy a guy i know via msn, we've met up. He's told one of my friends he fancies me. He also hinted i think over msn, but i'm not sure if it's in my head or not! lol.
He lives like an hour and half away, so it's not too far.
Any advice?
2006-08-12 11:27:14 · 12 answers · asked by northukstudent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We already talk on the phone and via text. We talk everyday.
He's never had a relationship, he's really shy. He's 24, i'm 19
2006-08-12 11:33:04 · update #1
to D'archangel
I've met him already!
2006-08-12 11:35:57 · update #2
in that case.. pounce on him! Good Luck!! xx
2006-08-12 11:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by scorpion queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decide to meet this guy irl, meet him in a public place. A lot of sexual predators use the 'net to find victims, and you don't want to become a statistic. It's also a good idea to take someone else with you; a second pair of eyes might see danger signs that your starry eyes miss (make it a group date instead of a romantic rendezvous). Be smart and be safe, then be in love.
2006-08-12 11:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him over msn where there is less pressure, ask him what he thinks about you and then if he gives a positive answer go ahead and ask him out. The worst that can happen is he says no and there are plenty more guys out there.
2006-08-12 11:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always think the best way to find out what a guy is truly like, is by hanging out with his friends.
guys usually stick to friends that are similar to themselves. like if he's a big drinker he'll hang out with guys that also drink.
if he's always on the pull his mates will be too.
they will give you a better idea of what he's like.
call me cynical but at 24 i find it hard to believe he's never had a relationship, some guys will tell you anything to get you into bed.
i hope I'm wrong, I'm sure i could be, i don't want to burst your bubble but i also don't want to tell you to go for it when there is a chance even if it's a small one, of you getting hurt.
good luck. i hope he is for real x
2006-08-12 12:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by tuppassister 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well from what I can understand a guy likes you. and it seems to me that you like this guy as well. Well if I'm right, then just talk to this guy alot more, flirt around with him and see what happens, if all is good, then just go for getting him to ask you out, or just do the usual "would you ever consider going out with me" question. Either way take chances and risks and see what happens, it's what this crazy world is all about
2006-08-12 11:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by darkgothicshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow well it sounds like your on a roll
If you know that he fancies you and you've met him before well so far so good!
you can pretty much ask him out yourself girl! but... if your like me and want him to be the one that asks, just give him a quick nudge, hint on the idea that you be with him ok sweetie?
Theres not much more you can do to be honest but it looks pretty good as far as i can see, good on ya girl =)
And... Good Luck all the best to you sweetie
2006-08-12 11:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to him on MSN - it'll all happen soon if it's meant to be. Good Luck! x
2006-08-13 03:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of you has to make a move soon or you are going to be too old to enjoy each other - if you are both using webcams to chat it is easy to flirt - wear something sexy and invite comments. wow is this question for real?
2006-08-12 11:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrange to meet up again get to know him bit better or even still have chats over the telephone n not so much over the net. hope works for you....
2006-08-12 11:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by misslj76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him its the best way of finding out
2006-08-12 11:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋