it sounds as though your mum is just panicking a little...and it's perfectly natural. hopefully she'll calm down and be more reasonable when she does.
you don't say whether you are best friends with your cousin and hang out with her. this could be the reason your mum's feeling this way...she's maybe worried that you two get up to the same things?
when you're both calm you could both sit down and discuss this rationally. your point being that you feel she doesn't trust you enough to accept that you're being truthful.
her point could be that maybe you've not been as truthful as you could have been in the past and she's frightened that you are going to 'spoil your life' by getting pregnant at a young age.
or you could let her read your questions, and the responses to it on here?
2006-08-12 11:42:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Perhaps the "do you see me pregnant" was a bad thing to say. She might be thinking no you aren't pregnant, but that doesn't mean you haven't had sex. Wait till she calms down a bit and then talk with her in a mature manner, and tell her your views of why your not having sex at a young age. Perhaps mentioning: too young, college, finding a responsible man whom you love...yada yada. If she sees you take a responsible approach to it she will calm down and trust you at your word.
2006-08-12 18:32:06
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answered by adgmonkey 3
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Hey, I dont see what is all the worrying about. When you say the truth all the things are in your favour and the truth comes out mostly. Your mum needs to trust you more. To be overprotective is not that good although is good intended. Make her trust you more. And from your side don't make her not to trust you, cause probabbly your mum is not beleiving you cause may-be you lied to her in the past about some-thing and by that way she lost some of her trust.
Good Luck and be strong.
2006-08-12 18:37:43
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answered by Why? 1
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Your mother is just concerned for your future. She loves you, so be glad she is showing it.
No matter how much you tell her you aren't, she is gonna worry. There isn't a way to prove it to her except through a doctor's visit and an examination.
So, just hug her and tell her you appreciate that she is concerned, but that if she trusts you, she will know you have been a good girl.
2006-08-12 18:32:33
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answered by KD 3
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Just keep protesting your innocence. If she doesn't want to believe her own flesh and blood, that's her problem, but please don't go out and have sex just because your mom thinks that's what you're doing.
Stand firm in your convictions. Sooner or later, she'll have to come around to the truth.
Arguments with moms can hurt, but in a few weeks she'll have moved onto something else. Please don't let either of you obsess about this.
2006-08-12 18:37:23
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answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7
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Just because your cousin is pregnant- you had sex? Ask her what does that have to do with you? Tell her that if she doesn't believe you , then you might as well go out and have sex, because what do you have to lose now?
2006-08-12 18:34:36
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answered by weswe 5
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Tell her that you will go with her right now to get a home pregnancy test and she will know right away. And later, when she has calmed down (this is just a panic reaction), you can talk about how her lack of trust in you makes you feel, and she can talk about where that is coming from. Talk, talk, talk!
2006-08-12 18:31:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Go to the doctor and have him examine you and then tell her you haven't had sex. He can tell. Unless you are lying.lol
2006-08-12 18:53:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell her that you are willing to go to a gynecologist to prove you haven't had sex. He/She will be able to tell your mother if you are still a virgin.
2006-08-12 18:31:09
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answered by teashy 6
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Tell her to take you to the doctor the doctor can tell her if you had sex or not
2006-08-12 18:30:23
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answered by Me 2
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