this family can a woman change
2006-08-12 11:17:50 · 30 answers · asked by robert y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
nope... I would move on...
2006-08-12 11:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Guzzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman can change but I'm not so so sure you girlfriend wants to . If you're asking these questions. You obviously have some doubt. You need to have a honest conversation with her. Ask her some hard questions like what is she willing to do to prove she wants "this family". Listen to her answers carefully. Then go with your gut. You've got to do what's best for you and you deserve someone that's not going to screw around on you.
2006-08-12 18:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by genuine1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES women can change. I was with a guy for 7 1/2 years. I cheated on him more times than i care to think about. I had one last chance to change and I did. My husband decided to cheat on me and accused me of cheating. Then he threw me and our 2 year old out in the street. within 1 week, he moved his lover in the apt. w/him
2006-08-12 19:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kat N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost loyalty to ones mate is the most essential foundation to a good trusting relationship. Those who can't keep it in their pants should not have children nor get into serious relationships. Prostitution would be a suitable career for these people atleast then no one can say your a cheater when your a whore.
2006-08-12 18:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have children together, why is she still just a girl friend? You should have married her before the first baby was born.
A real man marries the person he loves, he gives her security so that she knows she doesn't need to look for love in other places.
Sit her down and tell her things have changed, you are ready to make a commitment and you both need to take the vows that you will be loyal to each other. Make her yours, by making her yours.
Your children deserve a stable family, they deserve parents who love each other and them enough to commit to being together.
2006-08-12 18:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by chieko 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cheated once 20 years ago and i felt like crap. I even went to her and confessed. I have never even came close sense.
Has she ever forgiven me? No!
Has she told me she has gotten over it? No!
Dose she trust me? No!
Have I caught her in odd situations with another man? Yes!
Do eat humble pie and say an eye for an eye? No!
I feel that I have paid for my indiscretion years ago, I think enough is enough.
If you feel as if you will never forgive her then let her go, You do not need to live many years of helI because she F'd up.
If you feel that it is over then let her stay and express to her to NEVER DO IT AGAIN!
2006-08-12 18:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She says she's changed, however, you still have to take her track record into consideration. The real question is - can YOU handle it? If you can, then, the best of luck to you. If you accept her with all her flaws, then you can do it.
If you can't survive without trust, then it's better to call it off now before it becomes even more difficult. Your children need happy parents.
It's your call, and whatever you choose, you need to put your heart and soul into it.
2006-08-12 18:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course she can. She has to want to though. Repentance is a thing that is granted to everyone, saying someone can't change is a cop-out. I used to be a pretty bad person and I changed, so yea she can, but she's got to do the works to prove it. God Bless.
2006-08-12 18:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by ZenTurkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every one deserves a second chance(that you all ready give her)
but is not easy to trust some one that cheated on you two times
because if she did it once,she may do it again,so really you the only one that can answer this,if you really love her go ahead,why not may be this time she will change.good luck!
2006-08-12 18:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by ltngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any body can change when they have children, give her a chance and see what happens. If it happens again, kick her out and go for custody of the kids.
2006-08-16 16:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by addybme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe anyone can change but if it happen on a constant basis then keep your guards up and stop being so freaking nice
2006-08-12 18:27:15 · answer #11 · answered by Ms.Moody1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋