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to be upset, my mom called me two days ago and invited my oldest who is 7 to a friends birthday party, i talked to my dad this morning and he picked up my 2 yr old nephew to take to the party. But they did not ask not even once if they could take my 3 yr old. I have been having "jelousy" issues about the way my parent give my sister preferintial treatment but now they are showing it to her son, do i have the right to be upset because they only invited one of my girls? Or am I starting to over react?

2006-08-12 11:17:09 · 7 answers · asked by klynnd1981 3 in Family & Relationships Family

7 answers

you should probably talk to your parents about it. i have had the same problem and my parents didn't even realize i felt that way.it could be that they didnt think they could handle 3 kids or thought it would be nice for one on one time with your youngest.

2006-08-12 11:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by hedley_20 3 · 0 0

Irritated is more the word I would use but first I think you need to ask your parents why they didn't ask both of your girls to go. I know my parents refuse to take my 6 and 8 year olds at the same time because it is to much of a handful for them but they will take one of them and any of the older kids. Before you get to upset just ask your parents what the deal is and go from there and it might be a simple reason that can be worked out easily

2006-08-12 18:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0 0

Yes. Of course there will be times when it's nice for the grands to spend one-on-one time with each of your girls (and their other grands). But in this situation where it clearly wasn't your youngests age that was the issue, that just wasn't nice. If you explain to your parents how disappointed your youngest was not to be included and make it clear that continuing to leave her out will ultimately damage their relationship with her, then hopefully they'll 'get it.' If not, you have to protect your kids and insist that both of them are treated equally.

2006-08-12 18:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Pam 5 · 0 0

Sometimes parents have a favourite son or daughter...but if they are good parents they shouldnt demonstrate it!
You should talk to them cause maybe they didnt think about it and this feeling is making you feel excluded as you felt so many times before but in this case with your daughter....
try to let them know that you are upset...

2006-08-12 18:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0 0

Yes and no for both of your questions.

2006-08-12 18:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by UVRay 6 · 0 0

yes

2006-08-12 18:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlikehoney_73 5 · 0 0

be upset if u wanna, but why be?

2006-08-12 18:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by leighdevaney 4 · 0 0

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