My girlfriend of about two months told me that she lost "girl friend" feelings for me, and feels weird kissing and cuddling with me. I call bull **** because just a week ago she got upset over a girl I hadn't spoken with in two years came back in my life, and she was afraid I would do what her ex before me did and cheat on her with that girl. Typical "gf feelings" right? Of course! But then just a few days ago she tells me otherwise. I know she is afraid of getting close to guys and trusting them after her ex (the only guy she ever loved or her dad liked, and he cheated on her) broke her heart into a million pieces. Is she just afraid, or did she really loose feelings for me? And if so, how do I help her and get her to come back to me?
2006-08-12 11:16:17 · 6 answers · asked by The King 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes when we get hurt we just decide that less is more and we push away people we like just in case we get sensitive again about someone...it´s hard to trsut again in someone when someone you trusted in the past cheated on you...let her think about it...take some time off and demostrate her that you are still there for her and that you have deep feelings for her.
That you are not planning on changing her for another girl and show her little romantic details like a dinner at a nice restaurant and flowers etc...
we love that stuff...talk to her on the phone but give her her space..you should tell her you are going to wait for her and all you need to know if it´s ok for you to wait..
be honest with her and tell her if the problem is she cannot trust anyone you are going to make her believe in love again
2006-08-12 11:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is afraid of commiting to you. You said she was hurt by her ex and believe it or not, that does affect us girls in a BIG way. Tell her that you still care about her and then give her some space, some time to think things through. Remind her why she liked you in the first place, keep her interested in you so that he eyes don't wander. Be sweet, be caring, be patient and things should work out just fine between the two of you. Dont' push her or she'll only run away from you more. Be her shoulder to cry on or ear to whine to. Just be there. Good luck!!!
2006-08-12 11:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is going through a lot of unsure feelings because mayb @ first she was starting to loose that passion of love for u then when they were commmin back the ex thing happened and it got her angry obviously. so now she said she doestnt like u like that but realy i think she does but the anger doesnt let her. take it easy and slowly talk abaut it w/her ONLY if she wants to cuz if she doesnt ull get er more angry and annoyed. so be a romantic guy to her n win her back. if she gets difficult then mabe just mabe if u dont want her ennought nymore then i guess movin on is best.
LUCK
Michelle ^_^
2006-08-12 11:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Michellelelelel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, in case you in basic terms talk with the aid of textual content, e-mails or cellular telephones, the relationship replaced into probable in no way rather there, and it rather is hardship-free to drop the telephone! In all certainty, i could say that's a loss of pastime. Is the relationship new? comparable ol, comparable ol'? boring? want a spark to stir the fires? have been there fires to commence with? ask your self those issues and you will discover an answer.
2016-10-02 00:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by innocent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just wants to be friends. Let her know that you would not do anything to hurt her. Continue to be just friends and maybe she will come back around unless someone else has her interest.
2006-08-12 11:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's lost that loving feeling, ooooh that loving feeling, she's lost that loving feeling now it's gone gone gone................
2006-08-12 11:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋