I a Blond white woman who weighs 103
2006-08-12 11:14:26 · 34 answers · asked by Good looking and smart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your bf is a jerk. Dump him.
2006-08-12 11:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
well from what you said I highly doubt your fat at all, if anything your really skinny, maybe he is joking around, if not then he must have a really really bad idea of what a fat girl is. So well just talk to him about it. See what he thinks a fat girl is, I mean he loves you, and saying your fat doesn't mean he doesn't love you. it's just him being honest. Even though I really do believe he is absolutely wrong, but well he needs to first of all know it's hurting your feelings, and then you two need to sit down and talk about what his views are on things, especially seeing on how he believes a girl being 103 is fat.
2006-08-12 11:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ohhhh yes you should be ashamed of your self and get off your fat *** and do some exercising{JUST KIDDING}!!!!!!What the heck if your fat i must be an elephant'lol'!!!!!I am 5'2 and 130lbs and my bf often says i am fat too and calls me a fat *** constantly,but i know i am not i am average size and am very happy with my wieght!!!!!I would say you bf is just very insecure because you are so petite and i would assume very pretty !!!!!He is trying to make you feel bad about yourself by lowering your self-confidence, he wants you to feel that you are so fat and that he is the only one that well have your fat *** so you have no choice to stay with him.........but we all know that is untrue!!!!!!The best advice i can give you is to LEAVE him now well first give him the opinion to STOP the name calling ASAP and if he don't
kick his sorry *** to the curve and prove to him that you are NOT that fat that you can't find someone else to love and respect you and your feelings!!!!GOOD LUCK and i hope you can make a wise choice!!!
2006-08-12 11:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he doen't love you -- he just wants to control you. That kind of attack on your self-esteem is designed to keep you insecure so that you don't believe that anyone would have you but him. That's classic abuser behavior, hon. If he's not hitting you or cussing you out in public yet, he soon will be. I'll even go out on a limb and say that he doesn't like spending time around your friends and/or family (separating you from your support network). Leave this guy before he does you irrepairable emotional harm.
2006-08-12 11:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is playing mind games with you, I would tell him to stop it or your done with him, If he doesn't stop then tell him that you would lose some weight as soon as he starts looking better. Move on, he doesn't appreciate you and I am sure there is a guy that would lay down his shirt for you to walk across a puddle of water. Good luck.
2006-08-12 11:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By saying your fat (which you're obviously not) he's disrespecting you. If he loves you he wouldn't do anything to hurt you in any way. You need to get out of this relationship before this disrespect turns into something worse like physical abuse. Move on, you'll be better off.
2006-08-12 11:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
for one any guy who doesn't like you for you isn't a good guy at all. if you only weigh 103 pounds then thats not fat and you shouldn't really care what he thinks about you it only matters how you feel about yourself
2006-08-12 11:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by sengimars 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unless you are like 2 feet tall, you are definitely not fat. Your boy sounds like a jerk. Little boys who like to put down their girls do so because they are afraid of losing them. They think if they keep your self esteem low enough, you won't notice what a loser you are going out with. Kick him to the curb and hold out for a guy who builds you up instead of tearing you down.
2006-08-12 11:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Baby,He is playing mind games with you and thats a dirty trick...If he is already putting you down(which i don't understand,your weight is 103lbs.)Anyway,You need to kick his A*S to the curb,and find someone who will respect you and treat you like a lady...Remember,it's 50-50 all the way,to have a true relationship...
Your Friend Clowmy
2006-08-12 11:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay if ur fat then im like obeast cus 103 is lik a freakn toothpick compared to me. i mean im not huge just thick, but i think that u need to talk to him n find out what his pro. is cus mayb he is look fo a nicole richie u need sum1 who loves u fo u
2006-08-12 11:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because he's a dumb *ss. He obviously is immature or likes women for the wrong reason.
Tell him to shut up and if he doesn't like how you look he can call anorexics anonymous and get a really skinny girl friend...shallow jerk!
2006-08-12 11:18:01 · answer #11 · answered by chieko 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋