a heterosexual male and female couple are married in the eyes of the lord and the husband wants his wife to put on a strap on and take him from behind, and the wife is willing to do that. Is it a sin, or is it ok since they are married?
2006-08-12 11:02:51 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It's not only ok, it's great! Ok from a biblical standpoint, I don't see how you can call it a sin. It's an act between a married man and woman, so it's not gay. Anything the two of them want to do that they are both comfortable with and do not feel they are being forced to do is okay. God would have made us just like the rest of the animals if he didn't want sex to be a special expression of love. I think the more a married couple experiments with each other, in a loving way, the stronger their bond becomes and the LESS likely either of them is to commit a sin of adultery. Some couples even prefer a dom/sub lifestyle where one partner may be considered the property of the other. IF they are both okay with that, who's to say it's wrong? I feel like the only way I can dishonor God in my sexual relationship with my wife would be if I hurt her and she didn't WANT to be hurt, or if I committed adultery. If she's into spankings, bondage, rough sex with ME, then it's go time, and we don't see any dishonor or sin there. The more satisfied we are with each other, the stronger our marriage becomes.
2006-08-14 09:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by newbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "behind" is an erogenous zone the same way the genitals are... scientifically speaking, what happens in the bedroom between married couples is up to them, unless they want to share their bed with someone else. :p
2006-08-12 18:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by Shangri-La 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that the part of the Bible concerning homosexuality is misinterpreted way too often. As long as you are faithful to each other, I do not believe that you are in any danger of going to Hell.
2006-08-12 18:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by AeroMidwest82 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my humble opinion, this is wrong. Christ teaches that the thought is the same as the act. If this is a simulation of a homosexual act, wouldn't there be a homosexual thought?
2006-08-12 18:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes - a sin.
2006-08-12 18:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by whynotaskdon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man can answer that. Maybe your pastor could help you with the answer, but in the end, that's between you and your God.
2006-08-12 18:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not okay! It is a sin!
2006-08-12 18:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by zoril 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sin is sin
2006-08-12 18:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by shiningon 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
VERY GOOD ? i STILL THINK IT'S A SIN THOUGH
2006-08-12 18:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by spida_kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care.....keep your eye on the prize which is God...
2006-08-12 18:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by krsone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋