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I have been on 3 "dates" with a this guy - the first time he asked me to go to a concert, the second time, we went to the cinema, and the last time he invited me to his place and he cooked me dinner. I thought he was interested in me, but he has made no attempt to kiss me, or even hold my hand...nothing. What is going on? Why does he keep asking me out? I am so confused.

2006-08-12 10:25:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

22 answers

Why haven't you kissed him?
Why haven't you held his hand?

I take it you want him to do all the work?

Guys can be shy and fear rejection just like girls.

2006-08-12 10:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Elana 7 · 1 0

ok well easy answer here, he doesn't want to rush anything. He's trying to let you get to know him, and for his sake get to know you better. I mean you wouldn't buy a car without driving it first and seeing if you like it. Same thing with him. He wants to make sure that he can see a relationship with you. I mean he doesn't want to be an asshole, from what I can tell he seems to be a very nice guy. So well kissing you, he is either really shy, or he is just waiting for the perfect moment, so don't be so offended or confused. Would you rather him being all over you on the first date, and then on the second start to touch you, and then by the thrid him wanting sex. I really don't think you want to rush things either. So well just be happy that he is one of the few unique guys that value relationships, and that he is doing his best to do the right thing. So well just wait, the moment will come when he goes to kiss you. Just be patient, patience is a virtue. So well the time will come. If you really can't wait, then just come right out and ask him why he hasn't kissed you yet.

2006-08-12 10:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0 0

He must be an extremely shy dude. No guy would ask a girl out 3 consecutive times if he is not interested in you.

Maybe you can suggest him to take you out for dancing. If there are some slow songs even the shyest person will find some opportunity to get close.

2006-08-12 10:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Vage Centurian 3 · 0 0

He may be shy, or worried about rejection. You might give him a hint, like putting your head close to his, holding his hand, or just come right out and ask if he is ever going to kiss you...

Good luck!

2006-08-12 10:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by merigold00 6 · 0 0

Maybe he is the shy type. Next time, kiss him and see how he reacts. If he is still a cold mackeral, then you know he is not interested, and that you should move on to greener pastures.

2006-08-12 10:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by WC 7 · 0 0

you are confused because society tells you..you have to be physical. well why dont you just enjoy his company and get to know him... what is the rush. if someone says he is gay... i would think you would not be going on three dates. so relax.. and enjoy.. until he shows you whether or not something is wrong. third date no kisses.. is not a bad thing.

2006-08-12 10:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He's probably trying to get to know you and become your friend and become someone you trust before making a move. If you want it that bad make the first move. But make sure he seems like he's feeling it before you do. Good Luck.

2006-08-12 10:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0 0

it takes some time. i went on 5 dates one time before i had the nerve to kiss my girl. maybe he just doesnt wanna be hasty. if you really want him to kiss you, then why not kiss him? if he knows you want him to, he'll feel more comfortable and go for it.

2006-08-12 10:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by askcodyaquestion 1 · 0 0

Because he's shy and doesn't want to move on you and get rejected.

Kiss him, even if it's just a peck - he'll kiss you back. If he doesn't, then he doesn't like you.

2006-08-12 10:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by Brian L 7 · 0 0

he probably thinks tat ur not ready and he cares about u alot and he doesn't want 2 pressure u. give him a sign tat lets him know ur ready or do the brave thing and kiss him!!

2006-08-12 10:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by *islandchick* 3 · 0 0

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