How can I tell her so she won't feel terrible knowing I heard her.
2006-08-12 10:25:26 · 31 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her that the racoons living on your roof were making too much noise at night and you wish it would stop. I think she'd get the point and blush.
2006-08-12 10:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! i could hear my sister and her friend when we lived in the same household, it is an embarrassing thing, isn't it. one day while we were all setting around the table (we had to have table time occasionally to get stuff that was bothering each other off of our chests) any ways we were younger and there were 4 of us sharing rent. well it came up about her having friends in at night and we all made light of it trying not to fight over the fact that she was so noisy, we decided to say that we wanted her to respect our privacy and not have so many friends in at night. well that didn't hit the fan to well and it still ended up in a terrible argument, but when it came down to it she didn't care that she was so loud and that everyone in the house could hear her. uh! well i hope your sister isn't such a witch, and will understand that you don't want to hear what ever she is doing any more than you hope she wants to be heard doing it. good luck
2006-08-12 17:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by dizzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i feel so sorry for you that is quite sick, second what are these people saying about giving hear a hand that is horrible please dont go in there, just say that you can quite often hear through the wall like her TV or music or something and then maybe she will think about it next time, or just say can you ever hear what i am doing when i am in my room, because i can sometimes hear you, dont do it in front of your parents because that will just bring up so many more issues.
2006-08-12 17:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her directly but you could slightly bring it up in your conversation with her. tell her that you havent been able to sleep that well at night and anything you hear wakes you up, so you cant sleep and it just totally sucks. tell her also that wow, the walls seem really thin and its annoying, just also say that every time you try to put a nail in the wall it doesnt work and thats why the walls seem thin, so then she sortof gets ht idea. good luck!
2006-08-13 13:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a tape recorder. Record her at night making her love sounds. Then the next day, when she is not around. Leave the recorder on her bed and leave a note that says "Press Play and listen carefully. Try not to be so loud next time. Thanks." I think that ought to do the trick. Then you wont have to confront her personally and she can feel embarrassed when you aren't around.
2006-08-12 17:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you need to tell her, it's normal, she will feel embarassed no matter how you address it to her. So well just sit her down away from the world, and just talk to her about it. If you really don't want to approach the subject, then just sleep in another room when she has her boyfriend over.
2006-08-12 17:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by darkgothicshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be if you get loud in your room..maybe music or just make something up, she'll relize that the wall are thin. I don't know how you could tell her without embarressing her.
2006-08-12 17:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can hear your sister "what" through the wall??? Have sex? Masturbate? Suck off her dog? Guess it doesn't really matter....just tell her to be quieter next time.
2006-08-12 17:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she could lower the volume a bit, or a get a soundproof wall.
2006-08-12 17:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♫MizzUnderstood♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why -what do you mean you can HEAR her through the wall!! at night?
2006-08-12 18:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by nicola j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋