2006-08-12 09:48:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not if it was two years ago and everything has been fine since then. How many times did she do it? What was the status of your relationship at the time?
2006-08-12 09:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by The Princess of Pleasure 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why would you do that? how did you find out? obviously there was something wrong with the relationship two years ago that possibly is still wrong now, but she loves you enough to have actually stayed with you rather than breaking up with you. find out what's wrong, or was wrong, then fix it if need be, and just move on. if you're just looking for an "excuse" to break up with her, then do both of you a favor and be honest with her, and free her to find someone else as well as yourself, who could make you happier than you are now. take the high road and forgive if you love her. she'll love you all the more for it, and respect you.
2006-08-12 09:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how did you find out? did she tell you? have ya'll been having a difficult time getting along? maybe she told you b/c she was feeling guilty about it or maybe b/c she does not want to be with you anymore. if she didn't tell you, why would you break up with her now? it was 2 years ago. has she done it again? if not, then confront her about the issue and tell her how you feel. if she gets defensive, you should probably break up with her. if she breaks down and apologizes, do whatever you feel is in your best interest. good luck and God bless
2006-08-12 09:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves a second chance plus you've been this her before you even found out... Make sure you're not always thinkin about it all the time and that if you forgive her dont keep bringin it up because if you want her still--you'll push her away.... I've been in your place and in your girlfriends..... Im actually on her tryin to find out what the h ell i should do......GOOD LUCK *)
2006-08-12 09:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur the only one dat can make dat decision
u need to think really hard abt weather u trusted her more than or now and maybe even asking her cud help if she cheated on u then dat was the pass leave it were in belongs in the past but on the other hand if she did it then she cud still b doing it now.. so all dat will help u now is a serious conversation...
2006-08-12 09:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by jenn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to evaluate your level of trust with her. Because if you don't trust her anymore, why go on with the relationship?
But if you think the circumstances allow you to trust her, then look for a way to get past it.
But if you do decide to forgive, it HAS TO BE unequivocal. . .you can't dredge it up every time you get into an argument, just to make her feel bad.
It's a tough call. . .i wish you luck.
2006-08-12 09:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by ThatGuy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if its once dont give the other man the satifaction u seem like u love her and love is about forgive and forget but if she do it again then she may not love u back people make mistakes just let the relationship go foward and put it be hind im sure shes sorry
2006-08-12 09:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by yanira 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it was two years ago. You didn't know then so what difference does it make now. Just make sure you talk to her about trust issues and go from there.
2006-08-12 09:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, but make sure that she knows you aren't happy about her cheating and tell her that you trusted her and by her cheating, she broke your trust, so she will have to gain it back.
2006-08-12 09:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by Rebel_Renegade 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First get another girl. If she did it once, she must of done it more times and will do it again. No love lost; first get another love.
2006-08-12 09:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋