I am a christian girl (as we know that there are not many christian men in the church) and I just seem to be attracting only unsaved guys. WHY???
2006-08-12 09:36:19 · 23 answers · asked by Lady Mandeville 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Satan will try to use the men in your life to draw you away from Christ.
I speak from personal experience here! One of the biggest mistakes I ever made was marrying a "bad boy." That's all I ever attracted, too. To be honest, that's what I was looking for, too.
DO NOT date someone with the expectation of converting them. It won't happen. They will have a bigger impact on you. TRUST ME ON THIS!!! Water seeks its own level... and it always runs downhill. Think about it.
Check out Lee Strobel's book "Surviving a Spiritual Mismatch." It's about the struggles he an his wife went through when she became a Christian (he was an atheist). He has some great advice in there about why you should not date an unbeliever, including a real-life (and quite famous) example.
Be patient! If you're attracting (and attracted to) the wrong kind of guys, this is not a good time to be dating. Pull back a bit and pray about it. Ask God to reveal to you why you are looking in this direction. Have someone pray with you and over you.
He DOES have someone in mind for you (unless he's called you to a single life - but this is rare). Wait for HIS timing, not your own.
Again, voice of experience here, you should listen to it. You don't want to make the mistakes I made. My husband constantly criticized my faith (and just about everything else about me). He drank heavily, and abused me physically and verbally. We are no longer married.
I really wish I had waited. I can only imagine the wonderful life I might now have.
2006-08-12 09:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Diane K 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well I would assume is the fact that your a christian girl.The reason being of attracting men that are not religious is only to sway your believes,if satan could hook you up with a non believer maybe just maybe that non believer could change the way you think.satan has all the power here on earth and he can put people in our paths that may be a bad influence on us.Keep searchin I'm sure that someday sooner or later you will find someone just right for you.God will put someone also in your path for you to love and cherish,just give it time.
2006-08-12 09:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by clfgnr 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this reminds me of that Song by the Newsboys called Truth and Consequences.
Any way, there are good Christian men out there, maybe you need to go to another church, it also might just be time for you to be single for a while until the right guy comes along.
2006-08-12 09:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dane_62 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-04 11:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see tons of goodlooking Christian men in the church. Maybe you're hanging out with the wrong crowd.
2006-08-12 09:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by SAHM2_1B_1G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The devil would like to hook you up with a non Christian. Visit other churches, get involved with youth or singles groups in church.
2006-08-12 09:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they see God in you. They do not know that is what they see, but they are attracted to it. Don't worry, He has a good Christian guy all picked out for you.
2006-08-12 09:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by bonnie b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You better change your name if you want to attract any good Christians. I'm a good, strong Christian man and I seem to attract both Christian and non-Christian women. I have trouble because they all want me. I can sympathize with you sweetie.
2006-08-12 09:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It may have something to do with your body type. My sugguestion, let one of those unsaved guys date you, and nag them to convert. That'll ward them off really quickly.
2006-08-12 09:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If those are the only guys you seem to be attracting, try saving one of em...take them to church with you! They might not like it at first but if they really love you, they'll change for you! You might be saving people!
2006-08-12 09:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by lil_liza 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋