This happened 3 months ago. My boyfriend and I were arguing because he never told me when something was wrong, so he was always upset. We had an arguement, and we didn't talk for about a week. During the time, he was with this other girl he has been talking to for a while. He told me they kissed when we started talking again, and I accepted it and moved on. Now I found out it was WAY much more than kissing and he has lied to me this whole time. Now I just feel betrayed and lied to. He says he is sorry, and he will never do anything like that again... but I still feel this way. Do you think there is a chance he would do anything with this girl again, considering she still stalks him?
2006-08-12 09:21:29 · 10 answers · asked by Zorky Charlemagne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have lost any trust that you had in him, with his lies and his failure to talk about his feelings.
You maybe riding a dead horse here. Sure he may change, and I am sure he is sorry, for what he did. But once the guilt has left him, and she is still around, he just might fall again.
It will take a lot of time, for you to trust him again, as you will always be thinking, he's off doing it again.
You have to decide is it worth going through all that, to save your relationship, or would you be happier, just leaving him and moving on with your life.
2006-08-12 09:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,
It's gonna be too hard to ever trust him again. Dump the loser. This happened to my daughter and she immediately broke up with him. As time passed she lived her life, hung out with her friends, went to work, joined sports teams, made new friends, and got support all around between family and friends.
Eventually, she met someone awesome, was married last April and is so happy! Everything happens for a reason. You'll see.
2006-08-12 17:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by mrs_tetchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but the fact that he lied about it, yes he'll probably do this again. Give him one more chance to prove him wrong. Remember the saying once shame one you twice shame on me. But 3 times double shame on you. So everyone deserves a second chance. But that's all in my book and it should be all in your book too. Good Luck!!!! I hope things work out for you!!!!
2006-08-12 16:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Maryanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to drop this guy. He is not going to be faithful to you. The problem is you do not trust him and how could you after what he did? The cold hard truth is no trust=no relationship! Move on and drop him. This guy is not serious about you or a relationship with you. You can do better!
2006-08-12 16:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, if he cant tell you the truth now thigns will only get worse. Surley you deserve better then this!
2006-08-12 16:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by noone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser and move on. If he doesn't do it with that girl, he will with another.
2006-08-12 16:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course, he even lied to you about, so he sounds like a doggggggg
2006-08-12 16:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST LEAVE HIM he may do it with the same girl or another one so just let him go to hell...
2006-08-12 16:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by Malak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste any more of your time. Dump him.
2006-08-12 16:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater-lose the loser
2006-08-12 16:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋