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to the point of having sex anf it is really tempting to go for it but the more i thinkk about it the more i relize im only 15 and im not ready for that yet how should i tell him i think we are moving to fast???

2006-08-12 08:45:26 · 33 answers · asked by dumb_blonde1209 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

33 answers

You've been dating for more than a year so you should be able to speak to him. Right now he just cares about sex. You need to explain to him that it's not happening until you turn 18 or older. If he can't respect your decision, then he wasn't right for you. You seem to be an intelligent person listen to your guts.

If nothing else persuades you, remember that there are lots of STDs out there, some without cures. And you can get pregnant.

Condoms break. Birth control doesn't always work.

2006-08-12 08:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by BlueLantern 3 · 0 0

Just tell him that you aren't ready. If he's a decent guy, he'll be okay with it, and he might even appreciate having the pressure to have sex taken away.

Besides, 15 is pretty young. There's not reason to feel like you SHOULD be having sex at that age. Wait a few years. Trust me, there will be plenty of time for a sex life when you're older.

2006-08-12 09:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0 0

Two things:
1) Tell him you're not ready if you're not ready. Be firm. Never, ever allow anyone to pressure you into having sex.
2) The age of consent in most states is 16 (17 and 18 in some states). He is two years older than you, so if he had sex with you before you reached the age of consent, it would be statutory rape. He could go to jail.

2006-08-12 08:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by some chick 4 · 0 0

Stay in that place, sweetie.....this is a teenage romance and is sure not to last. Have fun dating and enjoying each others company and keep the sex out of it. I went all through high school and had a boyfriend and did not "do it". I ended up marrying another and, at that time, I was ready for sex.

2006-08-12 08:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Exactly how you told us here. The words you used here are EXACTLY what you should tell him. That you're tempted, but you're only fifteen and feel you're not ready, yet.

Good luck! You guys have been together a long time, so hopefully he'll understand. And if he doesn't, would you want to be with a guy who didn't take your feelings into consideration about such an important decision?

2006-08-12 08:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0 0

Be honest with him. Once you have sex you just want it more. If you start having sex now at 15, by the time you are 30 you will probably have had 20 partners. Sorry- not trying to be mean. Just letting you know what could happen!

2006-08-12 08:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by 30somethin 2 · 0 0

Just tell him that. If he loves and respects you then it won't be an issue. If you DO decide to do it just make sure you use protection. There are other ways to be intimate without going all the way too. Don't let anyone pressure you you'll regret it later.

2006-08-12 08:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

If you aren't ready for it just tell him and if he isn't going to respect you and wait till you are ready then he isnt' worth it. It doesnt' matter how long you have been dating you are still young i think if he is willing to respect you for a year then he should still be willing to respect you. And if you aren't ready but do it anyway then you won't respect yourself.

2006-08-12 08:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by siropson 3 · 0 0

I would just gently tell him that you are not ready for sex and if he cant accept that then tell him to get lost anybody that doesnt respect your wishes isnt worth your time

2006-08-12 08:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetie1204 2 · 0 0

He will leave you for sure if you say that.Sorry but thats the truth, get a 15 year old bf, whats with you girls dating older boys?

2006-08-12 08:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by utlcutl 3 · 0 0

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