ok i have decided thats it.i am in a position where i have nothing to lose.I dont have anything to lose but the love i have for someone.
I have met someone and i am thinking only of her thoughts should i turn up on her door step 8 thousand miles away?
your opinion, i am looking for motivation so please dont leave me some opinion that says true love is dead , because i clearly feel it.
thanks
wes
2006-08-12 08:42:42 · 25 answers · asked by ♥The♥ Bearded Cheerleader 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Wes........
If someone did that for me i wud think they were SO SWEET....!!! I say go for it.....
Like you said you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
Good Luck
x
2006-08-12 08:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by BlueMorpho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly you have romantic feelings for her tell her how you feel either it be calling, flowers or anything that your good at and if she feels the same way in return suprise her with you showing up but dont go 8000 out of the way to get shot down by love. make sure what you both fell is legitimate (spelling) and hope for the best
2006-08-12 15:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by squirrel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this situation. My boyfriend (soul mate, if you believe in that) went to study in Europe for a year. We had been together for 3 years and were planning on getting married. We were SO in love. I decided to use that year to define who I was without him. I needed to be myself and make sure that I was established as an individual before committing to a life-long partnership. He was supposed to return in June, but "surprised" me by returning unannounced in March. He arrived at my apartment and was basically like "Here I am." I felt smothered by this. We tried to work it out for another 8 months, but went separate ways because I felt that he didn't respect me enough to let me be myself without him.
So, GIVE HER SPACE!!! Let her know you care (send flowers, or something meaningful) but do not just show up!
2006-08-12 15:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by leahhepler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a wonderfully romantic gesture. However, I would make sure she is unattached before I go through all the trouble. If you do decide to do it, I wish you all the luck in the world, she is lucky to have someone as special as you!
2006-08-12 15:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Doreen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 thousand miles ahahahhhahahah
thats stupid coz 500 is the limit to a relationship.
Signed,
The Proclaimers.
2006-08-12 15:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what I first want to say:Wow. Open males I love them. Yes of course go and find the one you care about! Just call first you don't want to show up and find that the persons not there.
2006-08-12 15:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should bu don call her surpise her.. thats makes us feel even better.. because if you call her theyll be expecting you.. just call and say hi and stuff and then someday close you go and visit her... (o it would also help if you bring her something... a teddy bear.. even a rose would do)
2006-08-12 15:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by laurapazacf2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a bit wierd if you turn up on her doorstep 8000 miles away. Call her instead.
2006-08-12 15:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by Rox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am fighting for what I want, and I believe that anything really worth it to you is going to be a fight to get it. I say go for it, and the best of luck to you!
2006-08-12 15:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jessye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're sure she's the one, then go for it, by all means! Happiness is something you must chase, it doesn't just happen to you! If you feel love, then LOVE her.
However, HOWEVER, you should protect your heart (and hers as well). Ask her if you can visit her first.
2006-08-12 15:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋