Hello,
My bf wants to have anal sex. I have never done it but i am curious on trying it. how dose it feel ect? Then only issue i am having is that he is fairly big about 8- 9 in. i was kind of hard taking him for reg sex at first.
2006-08-12 08:28:06 · 15 answers · asked by steph g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
play around with his finger in your butt first and then maybe a toy of some sort and then when you feel comfy try it out always go to the bathroom first and then remember to use lots of lube and relax your self or it will hurt even worse ,once you get past all this it will be rewarding , i love anal sex it is great
2006-08-12 08:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
anal sex can be a pain in the butt. use 20 % lubrication and 80% patients.
2006-08-12 08:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear some women say they enjoy it after being alittle put off at first. They're embarrassed that something might come out. His length shouldn't effect insertion, but his girth would. If he's really wide just make sure you ask him to take it extremely slow at first and be sure to use alot of KY.
2006-08-12 08:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by insane in the membrane 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lots of lubricant and you have to be absolutely relaxed. if you are at all tense it will hurt a lot, so just chill out and lub up. once you get used to it it can feel pretty good.
2006-08-12 08:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by erin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it hurts for a sec because your tight. But it gets better Tell him to go easy.I was curious about it and decided to try it.
2006-08-12 08:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
expect it to hurt even with lubrication. your butt was not meant for sex
2006-08-12 08:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont do it!! It means he is PROBABLY GAY! Also it takes a lot of lubrication and a gentle man doing that because he could hurt you or rip something up there! seriously. Dont do it. Dont ever do anything you dont want to! Believe me you can always find another man who wont ever want to do that.
GAY, gay gay gay is what he is.
2006-08-12 08:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
lots of lube.....and he needs to ease in.....
you have to be relaxed and willing.....
if you are nervous and tense and tighten yourself up you will be hurting.....otherwise you might feel a little pain but it will be ok
2006-08-12 08:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by RomanGOD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your first time is gonna hurt like a b*tch!
2006-08-12 08:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts and i think u should stick to the front
2006-08-12 08:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by kagome 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋