I m 23. I dont hav any boyfren. Noone ever proposed me.Thanx to my beautiful face( wheatish,n not much attractive). N d kind of figure i hav, i weigh 72 kg n i m 5'3" only. Neither i showed any interest in guys.
Earlier i used to feel good abt it that i m not cheating my parents n also good at studies. but from d past few monthsi feel very awkward. All my frens hav got boyfrens n perhaps i m d only one widout any. At times i feel very depressed. Is it some sort of inferiority complex or some oder sort of psychological problem. plz help.
2006-08-12 08:15:23 · 11 answers · asked by Suhani 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Yes it is a psychological problem. Our culture has changed. Mind you, girls having a muscular boy friend or a boy having a god looking girl friend is just a fashion today. Most of such friendships break up as the time passes on. so its better dont have such friends. Its a fact that a true friendship should come from their heart not from their beauty.
Its quite common at this age for girls and boys like you to have such complexities and be carefull some of them fall into trap due to desperation.
U need not feel inferior to anybody, carry on ur good work and u will surely fine a honest boy friend in the years that come by.
2006-08-12 08:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by praveen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only one who can answer this question, now, is you. How long have you felt like this? Is this a change in your feelings from before (say 1-2 years ago)? If you truely feel that you may have a psychological problem, then you always have the option of visiting a professional psychologist. There, you will be given the chance to fill out some questionnaires and be given verbal assessments from the psychologist. After that, they will be able to tell you any diagnosis and will also be able to provide you with treatment options should you desire.
As was said above, however, there are many times in many lives when these feelings occur. The fact that you are comparing yourself to your friends is likely the culprit here. Please do bear in mind, you have much to offer to others and you will find a boyfriend who loves you for all that you are. Stay strong, and know that your parents and many others care for you and your happiness.
2006-08-15 08:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Police 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, U don't have any pstchiatric problem. It is just some sort of loneliness. Depression is something very different; caused by imbalance of hormones in the body and a painful and paralysing desease. So definitely you r not suffering from depression as well. Its at the best loneliness. First straighten your views and openions. Having a boy friend is not cheating your parents. Requirement of opposite sex is very human. If u deny that under social pressure u r behaving against the laws of nature. You can always have a decent friendship or any other decent relation with a decent man. Now go forward for a nice, intelligent, understanding man and make friendship or any other type of decent relation with him before it's too late. That will help u to get rid of your loneliness.
If u are worried, you may make your first relation through email, be a little accustomed to mixing with guys and then try for other relations. And remember, decent guys do not care for a womans look, they care about her intelligence, ability to do interesting conversation. So don't bother about your look if u r looking for a decent guy. . If u ever feel too lonely write me at brainfever07@gmail.com. Good Luck
2006-08-12 09:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by binaryFusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there ..cheer up ! Don't worry !
Almost every individual , both male and female, passes through this phase of transition.
Okay ?
The present scenario will change once you study well and settle well in life. Meanwhile you can take your mum into confidence and discuss this matter very frankly with her.
Also, I believe that, some amount of music and reading , will take away lots of pressure and tension from any individual, whether he/she is 15 or 50. Start devoting some time for music and reading ! okay ? Don't worry ...Today is bright ..and tomorrow is still brighter ..okay ? cheer up ! Everything depends upon our mental strength !
2006-08-12 09:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by suresh k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for my section, i've got not got faith so. Shaytan can whisper all he needs yet he can no longer bodily injury us in any way. those circumstances, even nevertheless can injury you bodily. Allah (swt) gave us minds to apply and income wisdom.one ingredient that we've scientifically be conscious of now could be that a lot of those psychological ailments are simply by a pair sort of strategies ailment no count number if the neurons are not synapsing proper or the neural pathways are blocked or whatnot. those are nonetheless actual ailments yet because we can't see what's happening or in hassle-free terms the strategies is affected, we call them psychological. So we would desire to consistently use our brains and settle for those medical findings because of the fact if we shop blaming those circumstances on shaytan, we're not greater proper off than the folk of the medieval a while who knew not greater proper. If those have been basically faith ailments, coming back to the religion could be sufficient of a treatment yet a lot of those human beings can fairly shop themselves sane, no longer to point practice a faith. returned, if those have been Shaytan based ailments, reading the Qu'ran and whatnot could help yet honestly in hassle-free terms drugs helps, which in case you think of approximately it in hassle-free terms got here to us simply by wisdom of chemistry Allah (swt) has bestowed upon us.
2016-09-29 04:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by boland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes are going to suffer a lot by asking such type of questions. yr parents are much confidential about u by making you connected to the internet and yr are spoiling their confidence. I did'nt say that having boy friend is bad. u had mentioned about yr apperience, its made by the superior power and he will make way for u. Please meditate for sometime.
2006-08-13 01:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by nandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking total strangers if you have issues is one indication.
Try spending a few quid and speak to a professional psycologist, after all it's only your life we're talking about.
2006-08-12 08:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by RF Ace Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Get help from your local health department
2006-08-12 08:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i am 19 .I was feeling just the way you did.But its okay, you will find a right special one who iswaiting for you.
i think you just need to wait.
2006-08-12 08:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello my friend i have such type of problem before going to psycologist please be care ful at last it your life;in my optnion make a best and good friend ,listen slow music,
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2006-08-12 22:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by RAHUL T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋