We both work at the same place,and they have a rule no married couples in the same division, which we are but not the same department. one of use would have to quit or go from full time to part time and lose our benifeits. We are going to Las Vegas in Sept. but she doesn't want to get married without family present. That's OK by me. it's just this work thing.
2006-08-12 08:03:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Get married, and bite the financial bullet. Who knows where you'll be in your career in five years? But you'll still want to be married, right?
Also, check with your HR person, but some benefits are automatically extended to spouses and kids.
2006-08-12 08:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember when I was a freshman, My English teacher, sweet as can be was also the wife of the principle at another high school. She decided to teach at my high school to not cause a conflict in personal v.s business.
I think it is best one or both find a different job if you two are ready to get married. Jobs can come and go. As long as one keeps income while the other either works part time or finds another position in another department.
You both waited til the last moment to decide this. You both should of done this months back in advance.
2006-08-12 19:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you work in different departments then it should not be a problem. Go ahead and get married just dont tell anyone at work. You have to change your paperwork for taxes though so the human resource worker will find out. However just wait and see what your work says to you. If one of you has to quit then just figure out who makes less money at that job and then help that person find a new job. Marriage and family are more important than work!
2006-08-12 09:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so someone has to quit their job. If you guys really and truly love each other, that's a minor issue. If it's a huge issue for both of you, and neither one of you wants to sacrifice a job so that you 2 can be together, I'd question getting married, because marriage requires sacrifices a HECK of a lot bigger than a job. Good luck!
2006-08-12 11:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 21:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by roza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you get married and one of you loses benefits, shouldn't the non-working spouse be covered once you get married. I would suggest one of you looks for a new job.
2006-08-16 07:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by sragic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both want to get married, by all means do JUST that! What's more important, your job that CAN be replaced or a woman , that might not ever be again?
2006-08-12 13:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard one..good companies are hard to get into..so so look around for the same level job with GOOD benefits. Good luck. VEGAS IS SO FUN!!!
2006-08-12 08:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If either of you aren't willing to go find another job so you can marry eachother, then you aren't ready to get married. If you were ready, you'd move hell and earth to get it done. But both of you are just sitting in a corner with your thumbs in your mouth wondering "what do we do, oh man, what do we do". c'mon.
2006-08-12 08:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get married there are lots of jobs out there im sure one of ya can find a BETTER one:) Good luck with your wedding:)
2006-08-12 09:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋