2006-08-12 07:52:12 · 19 answers · asked by Beaujock 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
IM A GUY!!! LOL
2006-08-12 21:45:30 · update #1
Married 18 years with 3 tours to the sandbox and 2 unaccompanied tours to Korea. Love, respect and mainly trust are the reasons a marriage in the military can last that long. All you have to do is remember their life is on the line each and every day. The least you can do is to go without sex. It's really not hard at all.
2006-08-12 08:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by HEartstrinGs 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Did anyone even think that may be this is the GUY asking if people think his girl will stay faithful? Well, if you ARE the guy...I would stay faithful to you. I have a cousin and a best friend in Iraq. The best friend and I were always secretly in love with each other, but we were always with other people. Too bad...it was a love that wasn't meant to be. But, I know his wife, and she's a cheating, money-mongering, b****. It makes me so angry that she treats him that way. He's over there sending his money home to his wife, and she's using it to spend on clothes to go out with other men. It's f*****g sad...but he's in Iraq and wants to believe his wife is a faithful little angel. So, yes, it's physically possible. But only if she loves him.
2006-08-12 10:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 10 Years of marriage, 3 kids and my husband has had 2 tours in Iraq. You damn right it possible!!!! I would rather keep battery companies in business before i lose My husband over whats in someones pants. Regardless if some want to believe it or not, alot of military wives are faithful, its the stupid kids getting married and screwing around that is giving all of us all bad name.
Just like in Civilian marriages If you love the person then Adultery is out of the question.
2006-08-12 10:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Charisma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey - that is the reason that wonderful places like "Babesintoyland" exist - you don't have to have your sweetie around to feel fulfilled while still being faithful.:) Hopefully your relationship is healthy enough that you can make the effort to discuss your wants and needs. If this is a truly loving and committed relationship then it doesn't matter the distance, the relationship can survive (without cheating) But remember that self satisfaction is not cheating especially if it is an expression of fantasy about the one you are missing. Those that can't remain faithful aren't mature enough to commit to that level of a relationship.
2006-08-12 08:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by unasmariposas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've read some of the replies & u got some good responses! It is entirely possible & should not be an issue if u really love & care about him. He is doing his job to the service of this great nation. Think if the roles were reversed! The grass is always greener on the side that it is watered. Continue to faithfully wait for him, u will not regret it!
2006-08-12 09:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Sheryl R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YES IT'S PHYSICALLY POSSIBLE FOR A WOMAN TO STAY FAITHFUL TO HER HUSBAND/BOYFRIEND WHILE HE'S DEPLOYED TO IRAQ/AFGHANISTAN!!!!
My husband is deployed to Afghanistan, first tour (hopefully last tour). I learned though the last couple of months you have to keep postive thoughts, love, and support. Each time my husband calls I can hear the disappointment in he's voice (wishing that he was home) and I have to give him words of encouragement. He's got a little baby girl (first child) and he's loving wife awaiting for him to come home. Yes I worry about him everyday and wish that he was home. But I also know that he's doing it for us - everyone!!! God bless our troops!!!
2006-08-12 09:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Army Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people cheat basically as quickly as, and whilst they comprehend how terrible they experience approximately it, they in no way do it back. besides the undeniable fact that, some people like the exhilaration and for all you already know your spouse wish the assumption of "what occurs in Iraq, keeps to be in Iraq". some does no longer evaluate it cheating because she's so a strategies away and it does no longer count quantity. She wish the exhilaration and exhilaration of it and do it back. Its relatively as much as you at this element because you already know her greater useful than any people. additionally, i do in comparison to her motives for no longer cheating back. you would be her clarification for no longer cheating, no longer the certainty that she does not decide for to be questioned. i'm sorry, that does no longer be stable adequate for me. She could experience so terrible for in certainty making an fool of you. She could a minimum of have adequate admire for you because you're a man or woman. back, in case you suspect she is telling you the certainty, which could be adequate for you.
2016-11-04 10:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is physically possible. Some people go their whole lives without sex, can't you wait a few years? Cheating on a spouse is a very bad thing, even not thinking about religion. If you cheat, you will have depression, guilty spells, and sex can even suffer when he returns.
2006-08-12 07:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by ModernMerlin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's physically possible. But you act like you are either justifying unfaithfulness or asking for permission to do so.
Remember: He's having to do without you, too.
2006-08-12 16:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by frenchy62 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physically possible? Sure. Beyond that it depends entirely upon the relationship.
2006-08-12 07:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Bostonian In MO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋