i just feel like he is giving me the 2nd choice of what closet I have and what kind of space for my things i have. He is giving me the worse stuff. and i mean, it is his apartment so he should get what he wants, but i feel like he is just giving me whatever is left over and he doesnt care about what I want. However, when I asked him about it he said that he is making an extra effort to make sure that i get a lot of space. Is that just him bull sh*tting me or is he serious? Should i just lighten up?
2006-08-12 07:51:28 · 12 answers · asked by katie l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound whiney and selfish! If I were him, I would tell you to get your own place because you are going to drive him nuts and he will end up throwing you out. Better rethink this, sweetie.....I already feel sorry for him.
2006-08-12 07:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was there first. So it's only natural that he has to make room for you. Take what you can get, and accept it with grace. He's doing you a favour. He probably wasn't expecting to live there with anyone, so it's probably smaller than both of you would like. You can however, ask him to compromise and maybe let you keep your work clothes in the nice closet so you don't have to fold them or go downstairs to get dressed (which is what one of my friend's had to do when she moved in with her guy).
Wait until you move somewhere else to get a completely democratic division of closet space.
2006-08-12 14:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes guys are oblivious to some things. He probably is making an extra effort for you. Guys just think in guy terms not girl terms. Thats what he thinks is best.
2006-08-12 15:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by pinkbunnylol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand this correctly, you're upset because you're moving into your boyfriend's apartment, but he isn't giving you enough room. It's his apartment. If you feel like you don't have enough space, or like he doesn't care about your needs, then what are you moving in for? Don't!
2006-08-12 16:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Discotheque 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go to his apartment and make him make space for you. i mean talk is talk but when one does the action that's when you should think thats not bullsh*ting...do you know what i mean? and yea just lighten up a bit. i mean if he doesn't make space yell at him or something till he makes space for you.
2006-08-12 14:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by dnangel_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Why Next Year?
Second of all Be thankful that he is letting you live with him
Third If you dont like what hes doing then dont go live with him, Your happy where you are now
2006-08-12 14:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by hicksvilleny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not agreeing with it now, you are not going to make it long once you move in with him, it will probably just get worse.........I would think about it and give it consideration on the issue......
2006-08-12 14:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then say no and live by yourself, or let him move in with you and do the same thing he tried to do
2006-08-12 14:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know you just sound a bit spoiled to me
2006-08-12 17:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by minicooperj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lighten up. he wants you to be happy.
2006-08-12 14:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋