well to make them you do the same stuff thats been getting men arrested and imprisoned for centuries.
2006-08-12 07:34:15
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answered by puzzle55usa 3
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hey don't be so hard on yourself things will fall right in to place. the thing is try not to let them see how desperate you are or they'll take you for granted and only pretend to like you has they did in other cases. get out there and socialize in spite of the rejection you receive, be polite, sensitive, honest but not too honest, make it seems as if you're interested but at the same time your not and it may confused those that are around you. sometime the best way to break the ice is by telling a very funny joke that will get people cracking up. i think what you lack is self esteem, the courage to say what you feel when you feel it. if all those fail try to learn the latest dance moves and impress the ladies that way. from my experiences girls like bad boys, you know the kind that seems they are living on the edge, not saying that you should start being bad but sometimes you need to find your dark side to get people to like you,BUT NEVER FORGET THAT EDUCATION IS THE KEY WITH ALL THE CRAZINESS YOUR GONNA TRY, KEEP YOUR FOCUS ON YOUR LESSONS. good luck
2006-08-12 07:54:23
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answered by speak my mind 2
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You don't say how old you are.
If you are in highschool, well it's nice to like girls but you have more serious things at hand.....like an education. Without one, you're going to be hard pressed to be able to financially contribute to a relationship, once you get one.
Teenage girls are fickle. And snobs, and insecure, and afraid to be seen with 'uncool' people. They are developing the same as you, and this is a very difficult time for some.
You need to stop acting desperate. Women can smell that for miles around and will avoid you like the plague.
Make sure that you are a nice person, good, confident, well-mannered, well-groomed, healthy. The rest will fall into place.
2006-08-12 07:41:44
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answered by weddrev 6
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OK before I say ill tell you you should trust me I know this stuff OK first be really cool you know where your hat back that kinda thing then talk to her alot next whenever you see her say hi or yo or something like that and then after you have been doing that for a couple of weeks ask for her number then call her occasionally (about 4-5 times a week)then after about 3 weeks ask her out its that easy bye
2006-08-12 07:41:24
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answered by yowazup16 2
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Try not to be so desperate for one thing. Be a man! being calm cool and collect. Look in the mirror and be positive and ask positive questions like how or what can I do? Love yourself and talk to yourself in the mirror outloud and sing in the shower be happy of everything. Be the exact person you would want to be with, someone who won't be all desperate over you like a crack head, figure of speech. Be yourself! everything should go well, if not it's okay we all go through it and learn and try again! We learn more from our mistakes. We all learn without manuals so we figure it out for ourselves. Be polite, smile and maybe write a love note asking to be a boyfriend or getting to know one another to a event maybe to the movies or somthing more active. good luck dude! Cheer up and never be desperate. I WANT TO KEEP REPEATING IT TO YOURSELF! NEVER BE DESPERATE<""I'm Never going to be DESPERATE"""
2006-08-12 07:41:35
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answered by Pisces 1
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woah calm down. You should just be yourself, you shouldn't be dressing like the other boys just to fit in. Honestly a girl should just like you for who you are. And girls don't like guys who are desperate. Have more confidence in yourself,its what makes a guy attractive. see what qualities you have in your favor and use them. Are you shy? try talking to more girls and becoming their friend. Dont be scared to take a chance and ask a girl out, because for all you know she may like you too.Don't rush things, youll get a girlfriend when the time is right, and she'll like you for who you are. Sorry if i was a little harsh man...
2006-08-12 07:38:22
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answered by GC 4
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Sweetie, confidence is very attractive, be happy with yourself before any one else will.
There is no one thing that will make a girl attracted to you.
Be happy confident in your manner, speak to girls like they are your sister not a trophy. Go to dances and interact without the creepy stuff like hanging on them or asking them out over and over again.
My son is the ladies man, but he listens to them, he is on my space for his local school and talks to them in the evenings about school not creepy stuff and they all like him.
Don't push yourself on a girl, talk normal and about the things both of you are interested in. It will come just be patient
2006-08-12 07:42:40
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answered by konfusedkathy2006 2
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Flirt a lot...but don't over-do it. If a girl tells you to not touch her, you better not touch her.
Hang out in groups where there are girls and boys. Communicate with the girls,.. try and listen when they have something to say. Connect with them..or at leats pretend to.
Join a lot of sports teams...so they can cheer you on.
2006-08-12 07:37:09
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answered by Isabella 3
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look first you have to be seen and keep your ear tuned to the messangers there is chicks that like you and there friends will go out of there way to say something i know its so hard to just say hello but just do it and for plan b take your talent to the talent show i dont like that super lonly feeling after chicks fake like they like me and im just one of there toys and its funny to them oh an d stop saying you dont like this or that girl cause she looks funny to you or you found some fault about her did you ask a girl if she likes you after her friends said something an old fellar told me stop chaseing them and let them come to you later dude good luck and give a girl a chance that you normaly wouldnt you will find you will have more girlfriends
2006-08-12 07:39:59
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answered by peter w 4
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Be direct. It is creepy when a guy acts like he is just a friend, and then turns around and wants to be more. If you see someone you would like to ask out, go up to her and ask her out. The most effective thing is to say...
I think you are (smart, pretty, interesting, fun), I would like to take you out for (dinner, a movie, golf). If she shoots you down, move on, and don't worry about it.
2006-08-12 07:44:37
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answered by sandcatsle 5
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Ok, I'm going to show you the books you need tobe sucessful, you better buy them and read them, then practice all the techniques in them. Yes they are worth the money.
2006-08-12 07:37:10
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answered by Anonymous
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