Who can I tell?
Just today i started remebering that my mom's exboyfriend had molested me a long time ago. And i dont know to tell or what to do and it hurts. I am only 13. My mother is a christain and she is married to another man with 2 kids (I love them to death) but i dont who to tell. It hurts really bad. I tried my mom about 2months after it happened but she just blamed it on me and continued dating for a year and a half then they broke up. My biological dad is dead(died when i was 1). I am christain girl but it hurts really bad.
2006-08-12 07:21:34 · 14 answers · asked by Lady T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My heart goes out to you, this is not your fault in any way, you said you are a christian, maybe you could talk to someone in the church you trust and feel comfortable with. Find someone to talk to , and to get you some help, there are also crisis centers you can call. my prayers are with you. so dont give up!
2006-08-12 07:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think tryin to tell ur mum wont help much since u tried tellin her before and she blamed u and now that she dont date him anymore she'll ignore u even more. but if u need to let it out talk to a grown up who u really trust like a cuzin or an aunt or any good friend. but dont let it worry u too much. thank god he's gone. and if god forbids this whole thing happens again speak up immediatly
2006-08-12 14:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by ▲▼ßððĝiз▼▲ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom, and if she still won't listen, tell a school counselor or your minister. You shouldn't have to hurt this way, and he should be stopped from doing this to someone else.
The school counselor will know what to tell the police, and will stay with you through the whole process if you like.
2006-08-12 14:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU really gotta tell someone make sure the person is a relative if nobody does anything about it you should contact the cops to get this guy arrested
2006-08-12 14:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by I♥drakε 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell your priest or your step dad. if you can't then tell one of your close friends or their mom. They won't be mad at you, and they should fix the problem. Make sure you tell someone other than your mom though because it doesn't sound like she would change her mind.
I hope one of them listens! Good luck!
2006-08-12 14:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the pastor or a trusted elder at your church. Even if nothing comes of it , you may feel better having talked to someone.
2006-08-12 14:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell anyone who cares and will listen!Tell your mom again and other family members!And tell the cops the guy that did that to you so they can get him in jail before he does it to anyone else!
2006-08-12 14:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by charmed_ones_lover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the police or call a crisis center.
2006-08-12 14:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom again. I'm really sorry for your pain.
Best wishes and God bless.
2006-08-12 14:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by bobhayes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom!
2006-08-12 14:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ramen Lover!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋