My boyfriend broke up with me, but i still love him. My friends told me 3 different stories as to why he did. Some of them dont want me to be with him,some do, but i love him still. Should I see why he did & see if we can work it out & go back out cause im pretty sure he still likes me too?
2006-08-12 07:18:46 · 18 answers · asked by Sydney M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him about it!! you need to know why he broke up with you so that you can learn to get over it, and then that wont be bugging you in the future or hurting your future relationships!! Try to honestly ask him and tell him you wont get mad and you just want the truth. If he has any maturity at all, he will tell you honestly. And if it seems trivial and you still like him, tell him you can improve and you feel that with a little effort you two can work it out. Good luck!!
2006-08-12 07:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by katie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK your friends told you 3 different stories. Now think what is the first wrong thing with that sentence?Your friends! If he broke up with you then he should have told you why and if he didn't don't beat yourself up over not knowing why. It's about respect, even if you are breaking up with someone the person doing it should have enough consideration to tell you why. If they don't then there obviously is no respect in the relationship to begin with. As for your friends unless all of you are dating the same guy I would think they need to keep there noses in there own personal business. Friends are good to talk to and be around, but if they can't keep comment's that are especially about how ,who, or why the relationship stopped to themselves then they have a very boring life.
2006-08-12 07:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by star110772000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor you, men always like that, they can suddenly break up with you at 3am, no matter he just called you at 12am...can you believe few hours can make a man become so cruel !? although you ask him for reason, he won't tell you the truth, the most possible is that someone told him something bad about you. maybe saying you're very difficult etc.
I know this is a critical time, you dont even know what goes wrong, but you are possibly never get know of the reason. your bf might get away from you and dont wanna be friend with you, when men breaking up with gals, always heartless...
you better let it go and do something else to forget this shits...there is no turning back if man dump you suddenly. you can hate him or even defame him...drag him though the mud...but you will get hurt and feel very sorry.
don't try to remember this, that's the best solution.
2006-08-12 07:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by Missy Jewels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Were there any problems b-tween u 2??
2. Does he have any friends that r girls b-sides u??
3. Do u feel dat if u move on, u will want him more??
If u did hav any problems wit him, ask him (if u can) did dat affect ur relationship at all!!
If he does hav friends dat r girls, hav sum1 who u kno but does not kno him to ask him did he like any of them or sum1 else!!
I think that u do need to move on but don't juss jump into another relationship so dat u can feel comfortable, tak sum time wit urself at this time b-cuz I've been in dat situation b4 n it wasn't pretty @ all! So juss tak ur time and u will find sum1 else n hopefully dis 1 will work out! Good luck 4 u!
2006-08-13 10:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes try 2 work things out. Who cares what your friends think? Tell him u still have feelings 4 him and ask 2 give it another chance.
2006-08-12 07:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now may not be the best time to dig for answers, especially not from friends...friends ususally make then break a relationship...dont listen to anything unless its straight from the horses mouth. i know it must be difficult, but it is possible to love someone from afar...keep all those good memories...one day, the reason might just show up...if its something you can clear up, its all good.,= if its not, its still a thing of the past.
2006-08-12 07:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told other ppl why, but didn't have the common courtesy to tell u then maybe u should reconsider getting back with him. If he is willing to talk to u and be honest about why he did it,...then that's another story. good luck
2006-08-12 07:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If he still liked you, he would still be going out with you. And if he trusted you, he would not fall for whatever crazy story there was going on. If he loved you, he would still be there...
2006-08-12 07:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is talk to him yourself and ask him.trust me ive been through this a lot.me and my bf broke up once and he still liked me.just talk to him and maybe 1 day yall can go back out.
2006-08-12 07:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him why he broke up with you. and its good to listen to your friends up to a certain point... dont let them make decisions for you... if u like the guy... keep him... eventually your friends will get the idea.
2006-08-12 07:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by curlie-ba-twirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋