I'm only 15 and I got a 27 year old pregnant. We are boyfriend & girlfriend, but my parents don't know that. They don't even know that i have a friend that old or that i even have a relationship with someone that old. We have a 12 year age difference. She's pregnant with twins. I went to the doctor with her, and told my parents i was going to my friends house (i walked there). I dont know how I can keep this lying up and stuff.
Can I get put in jail?
How do I tell my parents?
We have been dating for atleast 3 months.
2006-08-12 06:46:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Your name " sexy BOI" ----------- BOI---------- indicating you are gay, so what the hell are you trying to pull?
2006-08-12 06:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually she's the one that can go to jail if you or your parents press charges. This is considered rape even though you feel strongly for each other and love each other.
A 12 year difference is bad, especcially if you aren't married. You should tell your parents immediately so they can make sure that everything is going fine. I'm guessing since you have been dating for 3 months you have had sex a ton right???
Another thing is that she's 27 and she has the right to drink, do drugs, and do like everything. She could give you those things through sex. Or get you all jumbled up in sex and have you drink and get even more jumbled.
If I were you and truely loved her, I would stay with her. But just don't have that much sex anymore.
2006-08-12 07:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry..for what I am about to say..But that is very disturbing and I cannot believe a 27 year old woman, dated a 15 year old boy...She can go to jail most definitely...This is not good at all..I suggest she get an abortion, because if not, she will be going to jail.....There is no way to beat around the bush on this matter with your parents. You will just have to be honest with them. In the future (until your 18)..I would advise you to stay within your age group.
2006-08-12 06:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will not put you in jail as long as your girlfriend sticks up for you and doesn't try to get you in trouble. You, however, may be the father of those twins, so you're gonna have a (two) huge responsibility to take care of before long, plus, your parents are now gonna be grand-parents....surely they won't deny their grand-children. You're in a tough situation, but your folks should be supportive since you guys are choosing to have the babies. There's nothing they can do to keep you from your children. They may try to press charges against the woman for corrupting their 15 yr. old son, but let's hope not since there's babies in the picture. You on the other hand, still need to keep focused on school, and getting that diploma. You're gonna have to support these children now too, and you're just a kid yourself!!! I hope everything works out for the best. Just be up front with your parents, honesty is ALWAYS the best policy.
2006-08-12 06:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats done is done, nothing can change that. So you are going to have to take responsibility for the children at some point in your life. You need to tell you parents, finish school and go to college so you can take care of your children and be a part of their life. Your going to be a Daddy, its a lot at this time for you to handle, but in the future you are going to want to be a part of their life. Having a child can be the most rewarding thing in the world. So prepare and make the best of it. Because Daddy they are going to want you to be there at any event they may have as in baseball, cheerleading, or anyother thing they may get involved it. Just be prepared the best you can at your age. And please dont be a deadbeat Dad, the only one who pays for that is the children. Children love thier parents. It will be hard since your so young and have school ahead of you. But stick with it, and you will have a rewarding life ahead of you. And speaking as a young grandmother, after the shock of becoming a grandmother at the age of 36, it has been the most happy times of my life. I got over the shock, and I wouldnt change things for the world. I love my grandkids and would stick by them through thick or thin! They are my world!!!
And believe me my daughter got the same lecture I just give you, but her's was more in detail. She to has made the right decisions, and got her GED and now is fixing to enter College. I know it can be done, I'm seeing it right now.
Good luck to you and your family, you are being blessed right now, even if you dont think so. The future will show you how blessed you truely are.
2006-08-12 07:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by chilipeppa29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You can't go to jail, and the only way to tell your parents is just sit down and tell them. Sometimes as children thinking we're ready to be adults we make some bad calls. That doesn't make you a bad person or even stupid. Just tell your parents that you need to speak to them as a young adult and you would appreciate it if they just heard you out. I hope all works out for you.
2006-08-12 07:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by snowwhite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are underage. You have done nothing wrong. I hope she was pretty. Oh yeah make sure you finish high school first. She will have to take care of that baby financially by herself until you turn18. Use protection next time unless you want to pay child support for the rest of your life.
btw: she is 27 She was trying to get pregnant on purpose.
2006-08-12 06:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by jercha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is pretty screwed up...if she is 27 WHY is she not dating another 27 year old?! seriously why is she dating you, a 15 year old?! WHAT THE ****. tell ur parents the cold hard truth. YOU got yourself into this situation and its up to YOU to find a sulution NOT randomn people like me on Yahoo Answers. YOU TWO SHOULD BE DATING PEOPLE YOUR OWN AGE.
2006-08-12 14:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One Word: ABORTION.
This woman has no business destroying the life of a 15 yo. She HAS to be less than 3 months pregnant, so NOW is the time... You have your whole life ahead of you and she should be dating older guys.... (You can talk to your parents AFTER there isn't yet ANOTHER life being ruined.)
Good luck whatever you decide.
2006-08-12 06:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by angiesdabomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer's ---Chances of being put in jail are less i suppose(well i am not sure )
U should tell urparents about this as they arethe best guide ,since it was only infatuation(as it seems) this relation may not last long if u continue with this. better u talk to ur parents and seek advice
2006-08-12 06:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by tolle c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't go to jail but if you go public your girlfriend will be liable for prosecution due to your age. Even if you constented, sleeping with anyone your age is classed as statuary rape (sorry about the spelling).
As for telling your parents, only you can judge how they are going to react. Honesty is normally best but prephaps you should discuss it with your partner.
2006-08-12 06:52:16 · answer #11 · answered by livingphantom20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋