2006-08-12 06:19:08 · 19 answers · asked by ace15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her how u feel
2006-08-12 06:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by shakerrawashington@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a girls perspective, that's usually a bad sign. If a girl tells you that what she's basically saying is...you're not for me and I think you are gay! sorry man, doesn't look too good for ya! Find someone who loves you. Oh and in the mean time drop this girl as a friend because she is probably using you to hang around with while she's single, but she'll drop you like an anvil as soon as she finds a fat headed jock in a bar who will eventually beat her and leave her...revel in that!
2006-08-12 06:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by Passionfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. Learn an important lesson: No one human being "owns" or can decide for another who or what they like/love/tolerate. The problem is you and if you don't put this thing in perspective you can be moved to invade her privacy at some point in time. That is illegal and you end up in Juvvy. The reason you like this girl "a lot" is because she acknowledged you as a person and you were too needy and now you are confusing "like" with "she's mine." Welcome to life as adults know it - "it's always something," as they say.
By the way, love comes only from deep friendship and commitment. No teenager is "in love" because they don't know what love is. It's a hell of a lot more than any adolescent could possibly comprehend. In other words, it's an adult concept and say away from the territory.
2006-08-12 06:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this position a few months ago. I was the the girl who was friends with a guy i really liked but i liked my best friend. He asked her out and it broke my heart. Me and her almost fell out. But i stood back and let them be together. So if you do anything. You should maybe talk to the girl who likes you. Tell her the truth. Let her down gently. Let her move on from you first before you ask her friend out. Other wise it will hurt her a lot to see you two together.
2016-03-16 21:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing,
Keep being her friend and maybe one day she will see you as more than a friend. If you tell her you want to be more than just friends she might get uncomfortable and shy away and then you'll lose her forever.
2006-08-12 06:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by ej 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same place with someone and she likes my friend and I like her and its just a huge train wreck not to mention she told other people I don't even know. My best advice would be tell her how you feel. Worst case scenario she says lets just be friends or rejects you. So tell her how you feel or just stay the friend. I asked out my friend she said lets just stay friends. It sucks if she says it but you'll get over her. Just don't let it be awkward
2013-09-25 14:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jacob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like this gir alot have you told her how you feel about her...maybe you should tell her and see if she changes her mind...and if she doesnt then move on honey because life is to short to sit there and wait for someone who isnt going to give you the time of day to be with them.....
2006-08-12 06:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use the friendship to find out about her likes dislikes start doing those things for her to prove yourself worthy and getting a girl to ask you out and fluff you up a bit so you seem irresitable to her could work too when girls realize that another girl could be taking what they could have they react think about it good luck
2006-08-12 06:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her, don't be her friend, just move on....
that is the WORST thing a girl could tell a guy, ''can we just be friends??''
i would rather be cursed out...............
2006-08-12 06:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Ralph G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just b friends with her for now. dont pressure her into anything. if you do then she wont respect you. so after a while, you can ask her again, but make sure that its like at least a couple of weeks or a month. dont do it too soon, well good luck
2006-08-12 06:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by klo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she only like you as a friend then, remain her friend and she will come around.
2006-08-12 06:22:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋