id want to see my mum and tell her how much i love her and miss her and sorry for all the trouble i caused her. but to also say iv always been there for you and i will always remember the good times we had. LOVE YOU MAM HOPE I SEE YOU AGAIN ONE DAY. jayjay
2006-08-12 06:18:38 · 29 answers · asked by JAY JAY 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
yea think id ask what the after life is like to dint think about that.i was crying typing this question. i only lost my mum in febuary and it is still so hard for me to handle.
2006-08-12 06:23:03 · update #1
its just brought loads of feeling back one of my school mates died this week to and it just stirs things up in your head.....
2006-08-12 06:58:18 · update #2
how can i choose a best answer from all of these great answers....
2006-08-12 08:18:43 · update #3
Oh this is such a hard question, I would want to say as much as I could that the 5 minuets would allow me to, the thing is just to hear my mom's voice again would be wonderful, I would like to say 'mom, I love and miss you so much, I am sorry we missed the time we could have had together, but your forever in my heart and will be till we are together forever', then I would sit and bawl my eyes out like a baby all over again, just like I did 7 years ago, you know someone once told me this tale Jay Jay and maybe when you miss your mom on your hard days it might help you too.
Everyday in heaven all the angels walk down the road, side by side with lit candles, one day an angel was sat on her own by the side of the road, her candle without a flame, when god asked her why she replied, 'well god, I would so like to join the rest of the angels on their candlelit walk each day, but the ones I left behind spend so much time in grief that their tears keep putting my candle out, what should I do', god said 'go to them with love in your heart and tell them to let you be at peace and your candle will light you on your way to the angels walk each day'.
So, as hard as is it Jay Jay you know your mam loved you and she wants to light her candle too, leave her in your heart and her at peace, be happy and good luck.
2006-08-12 09:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Jayjay,
If i was to see my dad again i would say. Hello Dad i really miss you and love you more than i ever knew when you were here, mum is great we all love you. The boys have taken up (particular sport) in a big way (he would be so proud) I would hug him so hard and cry.
JAYJAY, what you said about your mum was very touching. I think its really important to cry. I think when you cry its a spesh time its really important because its like a sort of gift for the person your missing. In that time your crying its their time innit
2006-08-12 13:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by : 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them how much I've missed them, that I still loved them, that I was trying to live my life the best that I can by doing all that I could to the best of my ability and that I was looking forward to when we could be together after I passed on. I would enquire about what it is like, who they were with, etc.
Hang on in there JayJay. Know that your Mum will know that you love and miss her and would want to see you be happy again making the best of every day.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
2006-08-14 05:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm very sorry to hear of your loss. death is never easy is it? an old mate of mine died last week and i don't think i'll ever get over it. if i could see him again i would tell him how much i lioved him and missed him and appologise for not always being there for him when he was here. it would be nice to ask him what the afterlife is like and if you are re-united with loved ones afterwards. try to remeber your mum in happier times and take comfort that she's not in any more pain. take care,luv tb.xx.
2006-08-12 13:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my Mum after she suffered a series of strokes and deteriorated over 2 years. She'd defied death several times before and always won through...I never acknowledged when she was dying because I felt that to do so would be to give up on her, and I never said the loving goodbye I wanted to.
Given the chance, I would tell her how proud I was of her strength and courage, thank her for the many many sacrifices she made to bring me up, and to hold her close and tell her that she would always be safe in my heart.
2006-08-12 13:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by trebs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say I'm sorry that I did not try to force you into a detox and rehab program. I'm sorry I tried to pretend that everything would be okay and you would stop this on your own. I love you, miss you and think about you all the time. I'm so angry that those people you were partying with that night just laid you on your back instead of calling 911 or bringing you to the hospital. I'm sorry they lied about everything and I promise you that they will pay for that night.
2006-08-12 13:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by New York Mama 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say to all the people whom I've lost and in my life at 35 i think i've lost more than the average close ones, by some twist of fate.
I'd say : I love you and hope you know that you are always in my heart, and will always be a part of me, my life and my thoughts. In this way you are never far from me, our treasured memories, i will treasure them forever, never be far from me in spirit and i will love you till I die and hope to meet with you then. May God bless and keep you surrounded with love and peace, in your special place of rest. Please visit me in my dreams jsut for old times sake...
just last year, i lost a dear friend who was begging to see me because i'd moved abroad, he came to visit me jsut before he died in a freak sort of event...i think about him every day. My nan and my cousin Quintin...
Jayjay, a word of comfort to you is that I think they do watch over us, God bless you, take care and may you be strengthened by everybody's best wishes here.
2006-08-13 11:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you, and miss you, but don't worry, everything is going to be o.k. Just go and rest you have earned it. You were right, almost all the time. I apologise. Don't worry about us, it's the way it has to be, hope one day we will meet again. I would just hug her again and then let go and try to smile, that's the thing she loved the most.
I lost my mom before half a year, so I know how you feel...
2006-08-12 13:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by emma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want to see my great grandma and say to her 'i wish i could have seen her more often rather than every year for 1 week so that i could get to know her better because she lived in Newcastle, but i won't forget her ever. I'd really like to see her again and hope i will.'
Well anywayz goodbye!
2006-08-12 13:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by diamondeyesx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably ask all the questions I wish I'd asked while they were alive. There's so much I don't know about the people I loved. Take someone for granted and when they're gone, it's too late to listen.
2006-08-12 14:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋