My mother in law is moving to another state and wants my husband, her son , to move also, I do not want to. I think she is trying to break us up, by causing fights between us, so she can get what she wants. She is living with us. Am I being paranoid?
2006-08-12 05:34:54 · 16 answers · asked by miss know it all 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No, not paranoid. She's sick for being so attached to her own son. No offense, but your husband is also sick for letting this behavior continue. Where I come from - we call them mama's boys.
2006-08-12 05:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by EddieMora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not paranoid!!!!! I am a mother-in-law three times over and I have seen many mother-in-laws try to control their adult children. If you husband caves in, his allegiance is most definitely with his mom. Go get some professional help for both you and your hubbie. Your in law is the one WAY OUT OF LINE!!!!
2006-08-12 05:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Cassie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband allow her to control him? I think just because she is moving doesn't mean she has to take her son with her. Listen, I have been married 11 years took great guy--after dealing with my mother in law, her control antics, the "poor pitiful me" act, and its every ones fault but mine, I finally had enough. I gave my husband an ultimatum which I never thought I would do. Her games affected our marriage in a horrible way, and my husband realizes now that he allowed it. Things are good now. You need to talk to your husband. I wish you lots of luck!
2006-08-12 06:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily.Some mothers have a hard time accepting the fact that they are no longer the only woman in their sons' life.But, your husband is supposed to be totally committed to YOU,not his mother.Tell him that you don't want to move. His mothers' time to tell him what to do and guide him is up.If she didn't teach him to use his own mind when he was in her care,then it is far too late now. If he is a mama's boy and does whatever she tells him to,he has no business being married,and should be sent back to her tit.
2006-08-12 05:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not being paranoid at all !!!! It is your mother in laws choice to move why should it affect your family ? Why does your husband still need his mom to give him his baby bottle for support ? that's what it sounds like . It sounds like your mother in law knows damn well how to minipulate her son who has not grown up even though he is married
2006-08-12 05:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want too than stand your ground. She needs to butt out and give your family some space. I do think from personal experience, she will ruin your family's life. If it keeps going the way it is you might have to leave him because I know that blood is thicker than water and no matter what you say or do he (your husband) will always choose his mother over you.
2006-08-12 05:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by Island Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother in law needs to mature and not depend on your husband to entertain her she want to move and she wont know anyone so shell have him go so she has that and she'll still be unhappy.
2006-08-12 05:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by whirlwind_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million) in case you have been residing there, you're maximum probable seen a month to month tenant and you may ought to be evicted in accordance on your state rules. 2) If Granny is in that undesirable of shape emotionally, then somebody needs to take legal guardianship of Granny and quickly, touch an lawyer who focuses on elder regulation. that's a protracted and tedious legal conflict, be arranged to pay, 3) each and every state has a branch that deals with the elderly, as an occasion, Texas has grownup shielding centers, touch yours approximately Granny stepping into an risky residing house if that occurs. 4) I hate to assert it, yet Granny needs to be the two on some severe drugs, or she ought to correctly require placement in a facility with the flexibility to look after sufferers with dementia
2016-10-01 23:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by ribbs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think all mother in laws should live WAY out of state
better yet.. another country
2006-08-12 05:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No- my mother in law is crazy too. She needs to butt out. He grew up and isnt "hers" anymore. Cut those apron strings ASAP!
the farther away she gets the better off you will be!
2006-08-12 05:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by kermit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋