My 1st bf of 2 months dumped me about 2 weeks ago. He dumped me by this cruel email......just out of the bluw. I knew we were goin down, but not like that. How do I get even? I don't want to physically harm him, I just want to leave him with his thoughts, so he THINKS he has control, but really, I do. What should I do? I want him to REGRET being that mean. I want him to realize that what he did was wrong and he can't treat people like that (he was a crap head throughout most of our relationship.) He meant EVERYTHING to me. I really loved him.
How do I leave him with his thoughts?
Please help me.
Thanks! ;-)
2006-08-12 05:30:58 · 35 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just tell him that the break-up had brought you a better life. You thought you really loved him but now you know your time is not worth for him. It's meant for someone better than him. =)
2006-08-12 05:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Butt3rfLyKis5ez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep in touch and as soon as he starts making his moves on the next girl, have a talk with her and let her know what he did. Or make an unidintified e-mail and start e-mailing him or if you know of a chat room he goes on then go there and build him up and make like you want to meet him and then don't show up. Hey what gives here, I am a guy, I thought you ladies were the best at this stuff. Anyway, Good luck.
2006-08-12 05:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sweety...
I'm sorry that he dumped you in such a rude way. It sounds like you're young, and boys that age don't really understand how to end things in a mature way. Don't worry, they mature as you get older!
I really don't think you should waste your time getting revenge on this guy. The biggest revenge is to have him see you being happy. If you walk around crying, calling him all the time, and begging for him to come back, he's won. You don't need to do something crazy to make him feel bad, that will just make you look a little psycho.
Just have fun with your friends in front of him, that will really make him remember how fun and sweet you were. If a boy flirts with you, flirt back.
Hey, you're single, HAVE FUN!
2006-08-12 05:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by cutiewithabooooty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Revenge is a meal best eaten cold. Think about it for six months or so before you decide to do anything. The suspense is going to drive him nuts more than anything. Life is interesting and you have my sympathy. Move on to a more interesting and valuable model would be what i would do. You may be blessed and not know it if you are rid of this one.
2006-08-12 05:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way, and the one that will hurt this MORON the most... Start dating someone else immediately. Look completely happy, and pretend as if your ex doesn't exist at all - act as if you cannot remember him at all. He sent a cruel email? He likes to think he's in control? Show him how forgettable he truly is.
2006-08-12 05:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by EddieMora 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
id try dating his brother, or some other person close to him, and then obviously u get into his 'environment' more, and so he sees u dating someone else (if u'd go out with anyone he wudnt notice, maybe), and he wud get jealous. Then, if it worked, he mite ask u out again. if you have let go of him, say no way a$$hole! but if u still love him etc then say maybe, but under these conditions... and yea there u go he will have regreted it. But i suggest u let him down when he asks u out - itll make him feel REALLY bad!
2006-08-12 05:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be the bigger person here and move on. He'll eventually figure out he's an ***hole when other relationships fail because he treats them like crap. I know it's easier said than done because emotions run high but trust me, you'll respect yourself more if you move on.
2006-08-12 05:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by Justin G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Patronize
Patronize
Patronize- that's it! Any man who is so defective as to dump you in an asinine and cruel e-mail, will be so stupid, he won't even know what your doing! Play the 'oh, woe is me role' it'll work, trust me. But don't sound desperate.
2006-08-12 05:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about revenge but if you must get one of his best friends to date you and make sure he knows and sees you going for the night with him.I bet he will feel like killing himself.Men are jelous.
2006-08-12 05:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by Maxwell K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should grow up. If you really loved him you wouldnt want to do anything to him.
If you get even wont that mean your an *** just like him?
2006-08-12 05:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋