His parents despise me. We plan to secretly see eachother Friday nights and Saturday nights at a youth center we go to and tell them we fell in love when we saw eachother at school again in September. They told him they were sad and shocked he dumped me but they are also very proud that he made a decision on his own (we are both 17 by the way) He doesnt want to make them angrier by telling them we are dating again but eventually we will have to. What is a solution we could give without them being upset or angry at us, especially him?
2006-08-12 05:04:01 · 8 answers · asked by GirlNextDoor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WE DATED 2.5 YEARS BEFORE THIS...
His parents despise me. We plan to secretly see eachother Friday nights and Saturday nights at a youth center we go to and tell them we fell in love when we saw eachother at school again in September. They told him they were sad and shocked he dumped me but they are also very proud that he made a decision on his own (we are both 17 by the way) He doesnt want to make them angrier by telling them we are dating again but eventually we will have to. What is a solution we could give without them being upset or angry at us, especially him?
2006-08-12 05:29:57 · update #1
well just tell he doesnt have to tell them let them find out by themselves
2006-08-12 05:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by crazy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one, it's not his parent's desision on whether you guys can be together. I have been despised by many parents and I still continued to date the guy. So, it's all a matter of perspective with something like this. do you think that you can take them not liking you but still remain with your bf? It takes a little strength but if you just explain to his parents that you guys are in love most times they come to accept it. Don't worry . . . if this doesnt work out for you . . . He will not be the only guy to ever love you. Have fun . . . you're young . . . Don't sweat the small stuff and just go along on the ride of life.
2006-08-12 12:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Resident_Psychic_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report to Secret Service his parents are involved in Sep 11. The next time you see them will be after your first child graduate from Harvard Law
2006-08-20 00:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't like to see u 2 times a week maybe u should tell ur parents u have a boyfriend
2006-08-12 12:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to let his parents know until the relationship between you two are stablised.
2006-08-12 12:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell them they'll eventually find out. When they do just have him tell them you guys decided to give it another go.
They were young once.
2006-08-12 12:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by ej 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't, let them see with their own eyes and make there own observations. Unless you really feel you have too, it's really between you and him, right?
2006-08-12 12:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by kdks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them when they are ready, but you should definitely let them know
2006-08-12 12:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋