Ok so me and this guy has been talking for like three months now on the internet and we both like each other very much. But there is 3 problems. He lives in Canada i live in the USA. He hasn't come online in like 2 weeks. Sometimes i call him but he's never home. An the last problem is that i love him i don't know what to do. Ok i know some of u think i'm stupid for loving him but i do and please don't say any stupid comments. And no there is not an age difference we are both 18. So what should i do forget about him and move on?
2006-08-12 04:56:44 · 14 answers · asked by grant_lilmama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothin 2 worry!may b he'z havin EXAMS or busy doin JOB.
2006-08-12 04:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by srinu710 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not going to say you are stupid (because I don't like that word) but I would say that you are not thinking clearly right now. You said in your post that you haven't talk to him in 3 weeks. Well maybe his computer is down or maybe he considers you as someone to chat online with. You also stated that sometimes you call but he's never at home. Does he know when you will be calling at a certain time or day? Maybe he has a life other than sitting by the phone waiting on your call. And lastly you stated you love him. Have you ever met this guy? Did he tell you he loves you? Other than chat online have you gone to Canada to see what this guy is like and his family and has he come to the USA to get to know you and your family. My dear, please slow down. You don't know if this guy is really 18 if you haven't met him or don't know much about him. Besides you have only been chatting with him online and maybe by phone for 3 months so you don't have a clue who you are talking to. Be careful because there are men online pretending to be 18 years old and maybe 50 years old.
At age 18, focus you life on your future. Is futhering your education in your plans or working. You will have plenty of time for dating and finding TRUE love.
2006-08-12 05:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Who me? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would keep trying to reach him to just find out if he is OK. But unless one of you are willing to take a leap and try to move closer to the other then just remain e-mail buddies and move on with your life. He may have done this already and is afraid g/f might catch him e-mailing you. If you do decide to go there then just visit and take a friend, although you think he is this nice guy you could be wrong and if you are and you go by yourself then it could be your last mistake. Good luck and be careful.
2006-08-12 05:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, better it happens in 3 months then chatting with someone for 2 years and they decide they have had enough. I'm well over 18 and should have known better. Funny, my friend was a canadian also. You will get over it same as I will. I really don't think you are stupid. Your friend might come back and explain where he has been. Don't give up yet. Mine is alittle more complicated then your problem is. Hang in there!
2006-08-12 05:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by jackie1139 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let anyone say you are stupid. Some woman fall in love with men that are already in prison. This is a very common thing in the world today, to have this kind of relationship. You really should move on though. It is impossible to have this kind of commitment, with someone so far away. He has his own life and you have yours. Don't wait around for someone who is not there. You will miss out on so much that is right in front of you.
2006-08-12 05:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ha. Sorry, Not laughing at you. Its just that I went thru this too.
Im sorry to say but it IS pretty stupid. You dont know it now, cuz I didnt know it at the time either.
But anyway, my mom caught me and kick me off the computer completely and now I'm glad she did cuz who knows what wouldve happened.
I know how it feels. You feel like you love him and you need him and you want him, if only you could get to him or he could get to you.
You need to move on. This is not worth it. He's prolly busy talking to some other girl and thats why he hasnt been online. You can do better. Get someone from your school. Someone you'll see all the time and can do whatever with.
Good luck =)
2006-08-12 05:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Boricua 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not really know this person. You never did. He may not even be 18. He may be a 45 yr old guy hanging out on the internet fishing for young girls to mess with. I know you THINK that you love this person, but the fact is that you have no idea who this person really was. Here is a chance to throw yourself into something useful. Enroll in college or trade school and get on with your life.
2006-08-12 05:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by NolaD 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Time to move on. Really now, your 18 and you fell in love only through the internet. Your much smarter than that. Go outside and take a walk clear your head and you will feel better.
2006-08-12 05:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well..........remember that ppl on-line are not always what they seem to be. Not only that but you are still young and have so much life to live and experience. He is far from you and you can not even get a hold of him when you want to so my opinion is let him go and move on. Find someone who is close and u can actually know in person.
2006-08-12 05:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by lttlbt22 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nononon dont forget about him and move on u love him with all ur heart stay in contact with him tell him how u fell i bet he fells the same way if he doesnt fell the same way then forget bout him or maybe u could just be friends it ordapends wt comes from his heart lush_babie_12xx
2006-08-12 05:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if he isn't answering your emails or calls than there may be someone else. So just try to move on. I wish the best of luck.
2006-08-12 05:00:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋