what is the best time to produce a baby after marriage, i mean how long we should take?

Answer 1

"producing a baby"... ... ... ... ? i don't understand the question... are you asking about timing for ovulation, hence conception or are you asking how long you should wait to try to conceive... or are you asking how long the normal couple, without fertility issues, tries before they conceive?

Answer 2

If you seriously love each other and both want a child together then time should not matter although you do have to consider weather you have job security time patience and room for a baby as a baby soon becomes a child that very quickly becomes a teenager and they take up the whole of the house. You and your partner alone are the only ones that will know when the time is right. Good luck to you x

Answer 3

The answer to your question,- "What is the best time to produce a baby after marriage" really rests upon YOU.

Deciding on how soon you're going to have a baby rests on many factors such as financial stability, emotional readiness, etc. But in actual fact, even these things are not reasons enough to delay on your plan to have a baby. For some married couples (or newlyweds), having a baby sooner, the better it is.

There are couples wherein they really plan on having a baby. Let's say, they would give themselves 2 years before they can have one. All because they would want to 'prepare' and would want to be established first. LIke having a house of their, getting stable in their jobs, having a considerable amount of savings, etc. Well, that may go for some people but not for all.

Other married couples are not in a way influenced by their financial status. To have a baby anytime, would be okay.

What is important to look here is, "How soon do you want to have one?" Your decision to have a baby of your own shouldn't be determined by what other people say. How you feel right now and what you hope for the future is yours in the making. Your plan on starting your own family is your decision. I believe that it would be best if you talk to your spouse heart-to-heart about this. Talk about your hopes, your plans, your feelings. Making deciions in life may not be easy but to have a baby soon, will definitely bring wonders to your life.

Answer 4

Depends on how long you've known your husband. If you've dated for many years, then I don't think it matters. If you married after dating for a short period of time (less than one year) then I think you should wait at least a year. (A good indication of how good a father he will be is to watch him interact with children in his family. Does he spend time with them? Is he loving? If he already has children, how does he treat them?) You also want to spend time alone enjoying one another, which is why I ask how long you've been together. Once you have children, the marriage will never be the same. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but you will always have to put the child first, and each other has to come second.

Answer 5

Should give each other some time after marriage and not go for it starightaway. Having a child means a lot of responsibilities n life does change from being carefree. Also it depends on how old you are. So discuss with your partner and you only can decide on the best time.

Answer 6

That's really a personal decision that a couple needs to make together.

A Few Considerations:

Can you afford to support a baby?
This is not only about diapers and formula....
You need to consider 6+ weeks off work, hospital bills, etc.

Are you emotionally/physically ready for a baby?

Have you taken the time to really get to know each other? Relationships change after marriage, you need time to adjust (many couples would tell you to wait at least a year before trying to conceive).

Are you ready to give up your life-style/freedom. Babies change everything.

Answer 7

There is never the right time to have a baby, whenever you have them is the right time. I cant bear these people who have to wait and have all the holidays the best car and house then they wonder at 40+ why they are having trouble getting pregnant. It is because woman are not designed to have babies in their forties. I think the best time is when you are in your mid 20's. After all who wants to be asked at the school gates if you are the grandmother

Answer 8

Depends how much time you want for the honeymoon period to be over between you both I would say, if your under 25 have lots of fun and leave the baby making for much later on, if your over 25 then guess depends if you think your ready to have children in your life just yet, don't just have kids cause you think you have to conform or because of pressure, do what you feel is right for you both, good luck.

Answer 9

Every person is different, it depends on when you feel that the time is right. My husband and I got married after six years of being together and then had our first baby 4 years after we got married. We both feel that this was the best way to do it as we have had ten years together to enjoy ourselves and now it's time to settle down into parenthood!

Answer 10

I'd give it a year for the two of you to really get used to your new lives. having a baby can be really stressful if you dont know how to work as a team. take time and enjoy each other cause once you have a kid..time alone is few and far between

Answer 11

right after marriage is the best time to have a baby. Having a baby right away reduces the chances of you not being there during their college graduation...:D