Since I have started to work in my office, I have been told by a couple of colleauges of mine that a lot of guys in the office talk about me. Even my boss told me one day that I should be a little bit more cautious when being friendly with the guys. Well, I like to talk to guys as I find them funny, easy-going and comfortable to talk to. Anyway, I have a boyfriend whom I love very much. He is the only man on my mind and in my heart.
Anyway, yesterday a colleague of mine said to me: " Have a good weekend and don't harrass too many boys :-)" He mean it in a funny way and he was kind of jocking with me and flirting. I wonder what he meant by it?
2006-08-12 04:52:01 · 5 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he thinks that your're being too friendly with the boys
2006-08-12 04:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he used the word "harass" should be setting off your warning bells no matter how 'jokingly' he said it. AND THE BOSS mentioned it to you. Walk carefully, my friend, some one is losing their sense of humor with you.
Some men don't mind 'outspoken' women, and some do. Either he feels that you're going a little overboard, or some one else has mentioned it to him.
Be careful around the guys. They can file sexual harassment against you just like you can against them. Take a moment to make sure they don't mind "off colored jokes" or putting a sexual insinuation to your conversations. (Yes, even some men will find that insulting).
No matter how comfortable you with the males, they may not share that comfort and you should be careful of this situation.
2006-08-12 12:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might've meant that he sees u as boy-crazy and a bit of a flirt. that's probably his way of telling u that u come off as desperate to please or that u're coming on too strong. don't worry about it, some males can't handle a strong, out-spoken woman. sounds like the good ol' boys club to me. p.s. i too like talking to men better; they're not catty like some women.
2006-08-12 12:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you look so good that people stare at you, or if your going out that night do you turn alot of heads, some women look so good its almost harassing men like um, you know when you see a guy and you like his look you just go um um um you might have that affect
2006-08-12 11:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by raradaone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was just joking with you,but he probably likes you but just feels shy
2006-08-12 11:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by ##$SoulStryker$## 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋