but i kinda wanna give that person a hint that i don't wana be there friend anymore. b/c she uses me and is selfish and mean and cause soo many problems and frustration and stress, and i don't wana have a frienship like that.
what do i do????
2006-08-12 04:47:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Simply ignore and avoid any type of contact with that person and they will get the hint. And don't worry about what they will say or do because it shouldn't be important to you. If they say something about you because they are mad just consider the source and carry on as normal.
2006-08-12 04:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's being a typical guy. They in no way comprehend what they like, despite the fact that if we do. yet from what you have mentioned, that is sparkling to me that he in basic terms desires to be acquaintances. If he's in no way made a blantant attempt to enable his emotions be established, then maximum probable there is no longer something there different than a friendship for him. i think of you're torturing your self with this to be thoroughly hassle-free. in case you won't be able to be happy with in basic terms being his chum, then i think of you are able to decrease him out of your life. it would be annoying, inspite of the undeniable fact that that is greater perfect than torturing your self. You already informed him the way you felt, he acted standoffish approximately it, so i think of you are able to the two forget approximately it and be the chum he needs you to be, or save remembering and in no way be the comparable because of the fact of it.
2016-11-04 10:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough! You deserve to be treated with respect from a "friend". In turn, she deserves to be told how she is treating you and that it needs to stop or the friendship ends. If you avoid her and talk about it behind her back, your lack or respect will make you a hypocrite. Sometimes you just have to be straight forward, you will be proud of yourself after. Just be sure to explain your feeling and give her a chance to explain hers (even if she doesn't deserve this kind of treatment).
GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-12 04:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a grown up. Come right out and tell him that this relationship is not good for you and you think that it is best for the two of you to go your separate way. Don't discuss it. This is not a debate. Just say your piece and then make your exit.
2006-08-12 04:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by NolaD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid that person in every way possible. I've been there...and it's not a nice situation. If you want to be straight just tell that person the truth...if you don't want to do that...avoidance is the better way...by time he/she will figure it out and let go!
2006-08-12 04:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by asimenia_psycho 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me i have been in the same situation as you i let them down easy thats the only way ur gonna get rid of them tell them stand up for urself be urself what they gonna do take away ur birthday i dont think so just tell them its the easyest way trust me!
2006-08-12 04:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other things to do besides spend time with this person. Then you can be busy when he/she wants to take your time. Also, if you are used to spending time with this person, you need to fill that time with something/somebodey else. It doesn't have to be a big blow-up, just don't be available anymore.
2006-08-12 04:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you just posted. That's the adult way to handle someone you no longer want to have as a friend. If they are mean to you anyway, who cares how they feel???
2006-08-12 05:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by GreenEyedSista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't act interested when she's talking to you. Don't answer her phone calls and don't return her messages.
She'll get the hint.
2006-08-12 04:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by RatherTallFella 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start being brutally honest with them. Tell them what you think all the time. disagree with them when you disagree with them. dont hide it. Most people dont like truth of your opinion, so she will eventually leave. if most of us were totaly honest about our opinions we wouldnt have as many friends as we have.
basically..... just lose all tact
2006-08-12 04:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by CJunk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋