I always feel I am a misfit why don't I fit, in?

Question

In My Church,My work,all places,I just don't understand

Answer 1

Your fine, it's just the way you see yourself!! Move, start up fresh somewhere new! Lots of misfits seem to find a spot in Alaska!!!

Answer 2

Maybe you are not reaching out to people. You know if you ask some one some questions, like, how are you, lovely day, just things that show you are interested in them. At least it opens up an opportunity for conversation. Does your church have a social time before or after church. If,not, maybe suggest it. I did in our church, and it was really great idea. We used to go and leave and I just felt like we never got a chance to know people. Also, join a group, if you are single, then join that. But you have to be interested in people, honestly interested, and then that opens the door. How is the family? Just anything, and then when the conversation begins, remember what they told you, and next time you see them, you can ask, how did that work out, or how did that turn out, just anything to get a conversation going. If you act interested, it won't be long, and you will have all sorts of friends. Always smile at people, and that helps too. At work, that is always hard. You don't always get really close there, just too competitive environment. Outside of work, you have all sorts of ways. I think the best way is through the church and joining different groups. Single, Married couples, Bible Study Group, volunteer your time, that will open doors, and it is fun. If you show a real interest in people, then they will show an interest in you. Try it.

Answer 3

westerview,
Welcome to the club. You march to the beat of a different drummer. So do I.

I am a misfit. I am Christian, so the world has somewhat against me, I am a Protestant, so the Roman Catholics have somewhat against me, I don't believe that James's 'works' message is reconcilable with Paul's 'faith not works' message, so there goes those Protestants- having somewhat against me.

So what does a man of faith do? Get closer to God. A worldly person might turn to other things to 'express himself', but a man of God hits the books and studies, prays, fasts, and loves God without the churches meetings and men's groups and social gatherings, etc.

Just you and God. Hmmmmm. In the End Times no less! What will God and you do? selah.

Answer 4

You come from the Isle of Misfit Toys?

Answer 5

we all feel alien at times.. were just not social butterlfies - its our zodiac sign .. self confidence perhaps or a dysfunctional upbringing which make one being a co dependant take tyrosine a natrual amino acid at gnc we lack in system to make us feel better in moods and thinking and not get depressed. one thing at a time.. chats on a subject u do know about for starters get a hobby things will fall into place - really..

Answer 6

I think more information is needed.

but I think alot of people experience these feelings from time to time for many different reasons
I know I do, lots

or maybe its just your two heads. :) joke

Answer 7

try thinning out your nose bridge by doin various muscle flexes in the nostril area, brushin your teeth, flexing your cheek muscles, being postitive and friendly to people and makin sure you are not overwieght..lol. J/k...*er erm*

Just b urself.

Answer 8

Are yo in your 20's or early 30's?

Answer 9

you are a misfit. so am i. and damn glad of it. if i was able to be comfortable in todays society i would find another non-drone and ask them how they did it

Answer 10

Work to see how you are connected to all others, instead of seeing only your separateness. Separation is an illusion. We are all connected by source energy.