For example, you can't relate to any of them, don't find the same things funny, and basically feel like an outsider.
2006-08-12 04:22:40 · 19 answers · asked by Sunny8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Thanks guys. I don't think i am a teenager, i'm at uni and having a great time. it just my family seem louder than me and i don't know just dont seem to be able to relate. While i'm happy alone in my room.I know they are there for me, but do feel quite rubbish when i just don't seem to be on the same level as them.
2006-08-12 06:14:00 · update #1
All the time. I keep waiting for my real family to show up and rescue me.
2006-08-12 06:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by latingirl0527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
A) I have to play down my inqiuisitive nature/and or intelligence
(I'm not saying I'm clever but they only see black and white??, arent prepared to see the bigger picture, are very self centered)
B) they speak far more commonly than i do
C) None of them can spell
D) They are all very LOUD and can be very obnoxious
E) I get very emotional, they do not
F) our family values are entirley different.
G) None of them own,/or see the point,/know how to use a computer,
They find them 'contraptions' to be a complete waste of money, whilst i have online journals, create websites, meet online friends and create all sorts of things that make them go ooooooooohhh!!???
F) None of them have ever read a book, I've gone through thousands
i've never fitted in,
until i met my brother in 2005 who was adopted out, now i feel like at last like I'm not the only one with these feelings.
we see things the same way and were brought up entirley separately.
genetics are a funny thing
2006-08-12 04:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by littlestarr02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 10:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by lurette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes me too. Youre not the only one. Ive been to university and felt the same.
Its like youre life is separate from theirs - and if they were not your family then you would certainly not keep them as friends.
I feel like that now too - I suppose its because I wnt my independace and freedom that you cant REALLY have with family members around.
2006-08-12 11:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! But remember they are your family, and if they stand byyou then thats a good thing even if you are different from them.There isn't anything in the whole world that can replace that.
2006-08-12 04:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by merrileec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, hell yeah!!! i have nothing in common with them. they're shallow, racist, narrow-minded, and emotionally abusive. i have to continually down-play who i really am to avoid offending them and hearing a bunch of crap. i'm not allowed to show any kind of emotion except obedience and that really sucks. as a girl in my mid-twenties, i grew up bitter and resentful towards them and i can't wait 'til they both drop dead so i can collect the inheritance! the rest of my relatives can rot too!! i'm convinced that i would've been better off being raised by animals; in fact, i wish i had been. if i see them in heaven, then i'd rather be in hell! that's how much i hate them.
2006-08-12 05:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, growing up I felt like that...it's hard because it came across as not caring about my interests and really hurt me. Now that I'm older, I realize that they never meant to hurt me, they were just different. Hang in there!
2006-08-12 04:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Padme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume you are a teenager. All teenagers feel like this. It passes. You are not adopted/stolen/cloned.
You will find that you belong once you start fitting back in!
2006-08-12 04:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Allasse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right here. man, there all retards. they're all hicks. they all have a southern accent except me. me and my mom are the only normal people in my immediate family. none of them except my mom can read worth a ****, but i'm 13 and i'm writing this. my dad's an insane jerk. i won't say any more.
2006-08-12 04:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all the time...but i guess yea.
like my family's so 'let's move every minute of the day' and can never sit still. when i'm a lazy kinda person who can just sit and watch a movie. but hey...i complain.
2006-08-12 04:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋